Thats insane that their are providers out there that don't think shit like this through. I always get paranoid that I'm gonna get noticed by staff on my way to an outcall -so typically I just stick to sundresses (summers here are a real twat, afterall) or even slacks w/ heels. I just figured it's in my best interest to try and just look like a guest or someone that belongs there. Clear heels?! A feather boa....rofl.
Even if its a dinner out or a show -I want to dress age appropriate & classy. I don't want to embarrass my date if he's treating me to a nice outing. Games like "spot the hooker" do exist after all -why would I want to jeopardize myself or embarass my date & not have him take me out again...
Shouldn't this shit just be common sense??? I mean it's already hard enough being a SW with social stigma without painting a bullseye on our backs. Good Lord
Originally Posted by Gabby_Belle
Exactly! Very well said!
I like to hooker watch! Lmao!
You can spot them a mile away! I’ve actually walked up to a few and gave advice on being classy! Not walking around looking like a trashy HO!
Common sense should tell you that! But we all know not everyone has common sense!
Myself, once a Teacher, always a Teacher!
Something I always do: carry my Northface Backpack! Have my phone in hand reading something! Or pretend to be talking on the phone, if you have to walk by front desk! They don’t want to be rude and interrupt your phone convo! Always know where the elevators are ahead of time! I’ve been known to carry my iPad in hand! Look like you belong! They have no idea who you are only assumptions. Educate yourself on what they can or Can not say to you! They have no idea that you didn’t check into that place before their shift started! Find deals and stay in nice places! They also have no idea that you’re not just some random person going to have consensual sex with someone you May have met on POF! Lol
Most cities have their own ordinances! Read them and know the law! Tulsa actually has an old ordinance that I’ve been fighting to change for the last year! It states that two people caught having sex in Tulsa county that aren’t married is considered prostitution! Now how many people can stand and say they have not had sex with anyone but the person they’re married to! EVER! Not many! Not anymore!
So there’s a need for change! But how many of you would be willing to stand up and have a voice? I’m willing! Some towns still have laws written from the 1800s Somewhere it’s illegal to have sex in any position but missionary for married couples only! Lol cause remember if you’re not married it’s illegal anyways! Lol
Times have changed so much, it’s time they write new laws! If anyone would like to help, contact me! My voice can be loud, but many voices can’t be ignored!
What right do they have to say you and I can’t have sex in private? No one but the two people having sex know that he’s gonna leave her something for driving there or for getting the room! Or for her time! It is not their business! Educate yourself on topics like! How to respond to an assholes!
If you’re going to do this kind of work and be successful! You have to act and appear to be some rich fancy millionaires wife! Hey you might just be bored at home and meeting up with some hottie to fuck! No one knows about a donation, But you!
Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself! If someone asks me something, I’m always ready with a response! I’ve thought about doing conferences on :Learning how to respond in any situation! Maybe I’ve always had the gift of gab! Telling stories to cover my ass! Always keep your stories as close to the truth as possible! Always keep the same one! Because it’s a small world people talk!
I’m actually an Artist! (True) I get commissioned to do artwork! I may have a gentleman coming by to discuss a huge mural I’m doing in his foyer for his wife of 30 years, for their anniversary! But I say it in a non Chalant manner! Kinda like I’m just telling myself what I’m doing! I would just have to show you how I do it! Someone once told me I’m good at the bullshit game! Like knowing how to use the proper words to convince anyone into anything! Not really just good at playing with words!
Always be truthful they won’t believe you anyways! Example: when your wife asks you if you’re having an affair! No my darling wife. I just stopped by and picked up a hooker, fucked the shit out of her and came right home! Is there anything else you’d like to know? 9 outa 10 times she’s gonna look at you and day yeah right Asshole! People don’t really want to hear the truth, so when you give it to them, they think you’re lying!
Sorry I’m long winded! Anyone that would like more from my mind, holler at me!