Almost lost interest.

Laney Lixx,

Had to edit your post. Certain subjects are not allowed on the boards.

Rrabbit6926
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Life provides challenges, different for everyone. In business if ones life challenges effect the value of service or communication provided, the client has the right to go else where. Also, go to rating sites to express disappointment. It is not about fair, it is about supply and demand. On both sides, comes with the territory.

AP Originally Posted by AttitudePositive
AP: I agree with u 100%. When the provider is in hot demand, there is less incentive for her to communicate timely. It's only when her demand drops that she will improve. Fortunately we have a terrific bunch of ladies in our area that don't let their demand adversely affect their way of taking good care of their clients.
NK:

You speak the truth, young LUKE. Had a discussion on the topic of timely and effective communication just a few days ago with a young provider. Sweet young (of legal age) hottie. In my world outside of the craziness, we have a saying. "The one thing that stops all of use from achieving our potential, objectives and goals, is be begin to believe our out bullshit." We start to believe the world is wrong and we are right. Bad and untimely communication, taking into consideration we ALL have lives to live, is shitty business. Both sides.

Timely, transparent, honest (to a point) communication is the key to me personally wanting to spend one second with someone. Burning a providers time with no intention to seeing her is rude and complete bullshit. A provider whom is popular not being respectful and timely with her communication is unacceptable. My cash, I can do with it what I want.

BUT please understand I am simple a humble PanTard looking to be warmly taken care of by a hot, sexy PanHandle Goddess. I am nobody to take advice from. Have fun.

AP
AP: I agree with u 100%. When the provider is in hot demand, there is less incentive for her to communicate timely. It's only when her demand drops that she will improve. Fortunately we have a terrific bunch of ladies in our area that don't let their demand adversely affect their way of taking good care of their clients. Originally Posted by nkdwhtguy
There certainly needs to be a balance between the volume of communication, understanding regarding the timeliness of responses and losing interest. I like to build a rapport with a messages just to see if we're compatible. The last thing I want to do is have a bad visit -- same probably goes for the ladies. Imagine having to cater to an unappreciative jerk who thinks he's/she's God's gift to creation. There's a lot to be said for general attractiveness, but if you can't get along, you might as well not make the call. I recently had a visit, where the provider's pics were limited as to what you might find on the other side of the door. Her attractiveness increased greatly as we spent time breaking the ice. Ended up being a huge turn-on and a great encounter.
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"BUT please understand I am simple a humble PanTard looking to be warmly taken care of by a hot, sexy PanHandle Goddess."
....aren't we all!


There certainly needs to be a balance between the volume of communication, understanding regarding the timeliness of responses and losing interest. I like to build a rapport with a messages just to see if we're compatible. The last thing I want to do is have a bad visit -- same probably goes for the ladies. Imagine having to cater to an unappreciative jerk who thinks he's/she's God's gift to creation. There's a lot to be said for general attractiveness, but if you can't get along, you might as well not make the call. I recently had a visit, where the provider's pics were limited as to what you might find on the other side of the door. Her attractiveness increased greatly as we spent time breaking the ice. Ended up being a huge turn-on and a great encounter. Originally Posted by Jardinier
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yeah, i miss my utr also
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it would help if the providers werent bothered by ppl who are full of shit too. guys shouldnt call or text unless they are ready
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Don't give up the search. I'm sure that girl it out there. Sometimes where you least expect it. The main thing is not to get too hung up on any of these girls. They will come and they will go. If you do a doubles fantasy you need to share it in a review. I'm sure it will be a good read. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
RR: Excellent advice. Today, I was about to cancel my Eccie membership because one of our Panhandle gems has me way too preoccupied on her than I should be. Your post convinced me to remember to keep emotions in check.
NK,

I'm glad my words convinced you to stay. Even if you stay back in the shadows and not participate in the discussions there is lots of info on the boards to help keep you safe. Just got to dismiss some of the BS that goes on but that is just part of the game.

Rrabbit6926