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Had that happen today texted plan A she was available set a time. text i was 30 min away she said ok,5 away text i am close,Pulled in parking lot text i am here.Nothing !!!!!! i will wait 15 min if there is no response then to plan B The days of waiting in a parking lot for 30-60 min are over for me i think a lot of the younger girls will try to squeeze another appointment in if it takes you 30 min to get to there place.Texted plan A after 2 hours of still no response.Plan B was fun so not a total loss Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly

NO excuse for such behavior. Good for Plan B. You should report Plan A as a NSNC. (Or is it NCNS? I can never remember, 'cause I've never done it!) If she has a legitimate reason she should let you know asap.
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Had that happen today texted plan A she was available set a time. text i was 30 min away she said ok,5 away text i am close,Pulled in parking lot text i am here.Nothing !!!!!! i will wait 15 min if there is no response then to plan B The days of waiting in a parking lot for 30-60 min are over for me i think a lot of the younger girls will try to squeeze another appointment in if it takes you 30 min to get to there place.Texted plan A after 2 hours of still no response.Plan B was fun so not a total loss Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly
It sucks when you get no response...at least a response afterwards would be nice Originally Posted by loboy
Don't count on getting an after the fact reply from a lady who stands you up. Maybe a 1 in 10 occurrence. Usually, the more well reviewed ladies will give you a courtesy notification ahead of time. I've come to find that girls who rely more on text, PMs and e-mail are much more likely to NCNS just before a scheduled date. I think a lot of them double book and then go with the guy who gets there first. Bull shit way to run a business. Then again, the girls who do this aren't the smartest people on the planet.

Back to the original question. I try to line something up at least a day in advance. I will contact several providers well ahead of time and indicate that I am interested in seeing them. Usually, the first one who confirms is the girl I will book. I will always try to have a Plan B in mind-- especially when booking a girl I haven't seen or has a history of last minute cancels.
The key is to be considerate. If you are booking a last minute appointment (within an hour or two) don't assume we all sit around with hair and make up done waiting for a call. Cancellations always suck, but I would rather advanced honesty than a last minute "F" you. lol
How long should you wait? That depends on how much of a hurry you are in.
The one you're in love with?

Just kidding, just kidding. Originally Posted by proudoftexas

You're not kidding! It's the truth.
Don't count on getting an after the fact reply from a lady who stands you up. Maybe a 1 in 10 occurrence. Usually, the more well reviewed ladies will give you a courtesy notification ahead of time. I've come to find that girls who rely more on text, PMs and e-mail are much more likely to NCNS just before a scheduled date. I think a lot of them double book and then go with the guy who gets there first. Bull shit way to run a business. Then again, the girls who do this aren't the smartest people on the planet.

Back to the original question. I try to line something up at least a day in advance. I will contact several providers well ahead of time and indicate that I am interested in seeing them. Usually, the first one who confirms is the girl I will book. I will always try to have a Plan B in mind-- especially when booking a girl I haven't seen or has a history of last minute cancels. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
This was a hot little BP girl 99% sure it was a double book it always is. It take 30-45 minutes to drive to that part of town. So if she get a call right after i book she will go for it.You guys know the drill you show up and get i just got out of the shower give me 15 min then 20 min later ...almost done 10 min later your in I know a pro will not do that but sometimes the little head is in control lmao thats why a have a plan A B and C
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This was a hot little BP girl 99% sure it was a double book it always is. It take 30-45 minutes to drive to that part of town. So if she get a call right after i book she will go for it.You guys know the drill you show up and get i just got out of the shower give me 15 min then 20 min later ...almost done 10 min later your in I know a pro will not do that but sometimes the little head is in control lmao thats why a have a plan A B and C Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly

Nothing like sloppy 2nd's or mostly likely sloppy 5th's.
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Nothing like sloppy 2nd's or mostly likely sloppy 5th's. Originally Posted by shorty
Oh, yuk, I'm eating breakfast here! (Noooo, I'm not having sausage...yet.)
Nothing like sloppy 2nd's or mostly likely sloppy 5th's. Originally Posted by shorty
lol did that in my early hobby days seen a girl late afternoon went to wash up there was a large pile of wash rags and small towels on the bathroom floor. A light went on in my head now i ask questions
  • loboy
  • 03-06-2013, 10:37 AM
Don't count on getting an after the fact reply from a lady who stands you up. Maybe a 1 in 10 occurrence. Usually, the more well reviewed ladies will give you a courtesy notification ahead of time. I've come to find that girls who rely more on text, PMs and e-mail are much more likely to NCNS just before a scheduled date. I think a lot of them double book and then go with the guy who gets there first. Bull shit way to run a business. Then again, the girls who do this aren't the smartest people on the planet.

Back to the original question. I try to line something up at least a day in advance. I will contact several providers well ahead of time and indicate that I am interested in seeing them. Usually, the first one who confirms is the girl I will book. I will always try to have a Plan B in mind-- especially when booking a girl I haven't seen or has a history of last minute cancels. Originally Posted by Cpalmson
lol did that in my early hobby days seen a girl late afternoon went to wash up there was a large pile of wash rags and small towels on the bathroom floor. A light went on in my head now i ask questions Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly
Yea sometimes you just have to give a NCNS haven't yet though lol and sadly I'm still in my early hobby days so still learning
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Originally Posted by pickupkid

LMAO i have been that guy to getting dressed after a nasty sweaty mind blowing session the girl gives her parts one quick wipe with damp cloth the texting the next guy give me 5 minutes
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I got a response 2 months later one time on p411. Had a short back and forth pm with her, said she was across the pond. I guess no inter web over there.
We prefer at least a days notice, optimal is a few days. Anything with less than 6 hours for us is too hard to juggle our regular life to fit. -- Just our 4 cents.
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  • Old-T
  • 03-07-2013, 06:07 PM
Definately prefer to plan things a week or so in advance. In those cases I'll wait a couple days before moving on. I am usually looking to meet a specific lady, and I often can be flexible about the day and time withing reason.

I know many dates are set up on the spur of the moment, but that doesn't appeal to me for a number of reasone.

To the original question, 1 or 2 hrs seems completely unrealistic. Do you think she is sitting around day after day waiting for you to call? And if an hour or so is all you can afford to wait, I wouldn't worry about moving on. Asking is not an agreement. Once I agreed to an apointment, that's a different issue.
How long should you wait for a provider to answer? before contacting another provider? just a guess....1 to 2 hours. Or you do you contact both providers and see who answers? Originally Posted by pickupkid
I would say the right amount of time is what YOUR willing to do. i.e. if you have plenty of time or even don't mind if it takes them days to respond then that's OK for you. And im using you as a general group not YOU in particular PUK.

But for me since I don't book same day appointments usually... I give them a day. If they don't respond back during that time frame, I move on. Also for me, if I don't hear back from them ever or it takes them 3 or 4 days to get back, I don't contact them ever again. And keep in mind I only contact girls that are traveling through and have placed ads so they should be expecting Pm's and looking for them. No matter how good her reviews, if they cant at least contact me back at some point, I'm out with them for good because there are too many girls on here that do TCB and deserve the business.

There has only been one time I went against the never contacting a no/ very late response girl back again. She sent me a PM with pictures saying she was sorry for missing my request and wanted to meet. The pictures were very convincing..

Reward the girls who Take Care of Business and you normally have a GREAT time.