Civilian, Semi-Pro, UTR status?

Then it is to the ladies who actually make money at bars to answer.

MyMinx,

Now you know my thoughts and business plans are too complicated to express in such short bursts of info. But I'll try.

First, let me jump to the end...although I know you have quite the attention span.

You may or may not know.....I never leave the house without my backpack. In it is 250 in cash and 3 skyns...hidden in a void that can't be found. I know my SO has not found it because, if she had...I'd be dead already. So...crystal clear: I'm in for any of the 4 except the stripper...sight unseen. My only requirement is MSOG. It is RARE that I leave after one shot....maybe only during a 1 shot, 40 minute unplanned quickie.

Anyway, back to the plan. I'll also note I read all of your note and picked up on the ladies' concerns and constraints.

Every business needs a long term plan and a short term plan. Let's stick to the short term here.

1. Fastest way to quick cash is a bp ad and a cheap hotel on 1-10 and any major intersection. Some girls have told me they can check in at 2 on Friday and by noon Saturday have 1500 to 2K cash. Catering to 1 shot, 30 minute CBJ sessions. Yes...capitalism at its finest. (This option not for your ladies.)

2. Next option was stated above already...eccie WW ad delivered at the right time and BAM...quick cash if they have the goods. It would be very helpful to have an assistant well versed on the eccie crowd that could provide quick screening and scheduling help. I'm thinking that screener is you. (Still not a preferred option.)

3. Best option is for said screener to pick out a handful of select eccie gents you know will flange up (yes I'm an engineer) nicely with your ladies and arrange some soft dates all UTR. Be clear on the menu, agree to no reviews, avoid scheduling conflicts, hot sheeting the bed, and nc/ns your ladies have hard cash with little risk and effort and probably a good bit of pleasure....plus not wasting their time eating dinner in public with fucktards. Most of us can't do that anyway...not in our home town. Furthermore, if the lady was good.....at least half of the men will repeat...and half of them "regularly."

4. From here it gets more complicated. As you suggested: dinner dates, hotel bars, evening dates, sleep overs, "travel companion" etc. Many of these can bring more dollars per date....but maybe not more dollars per hour.

Okay...that's a summary. My breakfast is here. Gotta go for now.

I sure hope when I hit post that the page doesn't stall. I'll be pissed. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter

For the handful of you who know me and have met some of my friends, I think you'd agree that any of them posting on backpage would immediately elicit a flurry of TGTBT/fake pic posts. Lol. No offense to BP ladies.

Basically, but for one...they've all been mistresses to very wealthy men (actually guy friends of mine, that's how I met them) but weren't formally "kept." So they kind of get it but not really. Now that they know my former situation, they are all hitting themselves in the head thinking they should have played the game differently....

Then it is to the ladies who actually make money at bars to answer. Originally Posted by Sjc21108

Paging ThatHotNurse...

And yes...I'm planning on meeting up Tuesday with a couple girls to ask them, but I thought I'd pick your brains here, too...

Ok, here's the question.

What would a lady at a bar have to do or say to let you know that she wanted to P4P?

In the old days, preInternet, they used to ask if you could run 100 miles, blah blah blah...

Then it used to be they'd sip champagne with a strawberry in it.

Has the internet taken the possibility of real life hooker pickups impossible or at least improbable? I know this is the wrong audience because you all appreciate the convenience and security factors, but am I wrong to miss the days gone by, lol? A little hooker intrigue?

Geez LilMynx, not sure I know the secret code yet for that scenario? Speaking personally, for me if a lovely young lady is showing interest in me at a bar. Due to my own over the hill looks, it would be apparent to me she is interested in P4P or else she would be talking to someone a lot younger. Lol

Realize that is not true for everyone. Let me know what the secret code is so I won't look like a total a$$, when it happens...!!! Lol

For the handful of you who know me and have met some of my friends, I think you'd agree that any of them posting on backpage would immediately elicit a flurry of TGTBT/fake pic posts. Lol. No offense to BP ladies. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Yes...stated that was out. But didn't put a reminder "real pics not required or expected."

....Basically, but for one...they've all been mistresses to very wealthy men (actually guy friends of mine, that's how I met them) but weren't formally "kept." So they kind of get it but not really. Now that they know my former situation, they are all hitting themselves in the head thinking they should have played the game differently.... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I knew where this was going but my eggs arrived. So what is needed now is a thread "opposite" of the one the guy put up the other day "where to find horny free housewives"...which might be considered here as winning the lottery.

From the ladies perspective, winning the lottery would be kept as you say. So what is she to do to score here? Clearly, wrecking a home and being the new wife is not the desired outcome. No woman wants that kind of b.s. commitment. Besides, living together is what ruins it all.

The outcome is to be a high "dollar per month" or better yet "per year" secret of the old man's. I'm thinking maybe the divorcee could get a job in the pro shop at one of the exclusive golf courses. She could land some opportunities in no time. This might not work for the stripper...nobody would take her seriously if she fits the stereotype. Customers might ask if she drives the beverage cart.

That stripper might have better luck behind the counter at Briley's....or the executive side of Athena.

There might be plenty of other jobs or hangouts where a passing smart (and rich) man might desire a similar arrangement. So two ways to catch fish: 1) keep trolling until you find them 2) wade fish in one spot until the big one passes by.

So MyMynx....start a thread "Where do I find my keeper?"

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The brainstorming at lunch was nothing short of hysterical, btw.

Naked sushi delivery?

Blowjob wake up service?

Swing club companion?

Wash and Fold service with "special delivery?"

I can't wait to tell them about SlumberPartyVille, lol...

Ok, here's the question.

What would a lady at a bar have to do or say to let you know that she wanted to P4P?

..... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Three hands:

On 1 hand: worldwide, I know a lady is a hooker by the way she looks. I don't mean "her looks" I mean the way she "looks back at me." So many places I travel, 90% of the woman are dressed in way that would lead you to believe they are providers. It is their culture to dress that way. But, if I look at a lady and she miles and looks away....normal lady. If she looks back, ...more than once, she's ready to p4p. It is that easy. Bear in mind....it is legal in these countries.

On the 2nd hand, I do (bragging) have a great ability to strike a conversation with anyone. Where does that usually get me?....usually nowhere. In this country, if I met someone in my hotel bar and started a great conversation....she still might have to whisper her fee in my ear before I would get it. When it comes to women, I've been told I'm not a closer.

On the 3rd hand (or leg): I will admit I have had a transaction with a lady I met in my international hotel bar. Jumping to the end, it was not obvious to me she was a hooker until she was in my room and started to negotiate. She was not typical for the area. She followed Mynx's "hotel bar" protocol. She sipped her wine, looked like a guest (this hotel not being "lady friendly" and there being much better places to find a customer), she was not pushy. I finally got her over to my table (I think she came because her glass was empty). At my request, the waitress brought her another wine and me another coffee. She enjoyed our conversation (in her language - which at the time was a struggle for me). This went on for a long time - too fucking long. Finally, I told her "It is past my bedtime" in her language and her response was "solo o con una amiga." My response, "con una amiga" and we went to my room. Once inside, she started to negotiate which, honestly, surprised the hell out of me. I thought I had scored a much earned freebie. Anyway, she was cheap. 4-11 Latina spinner...Colombiana. The ROS is on here somewhere and OT for this thread.

Man....I need to get billable. Last post.

Damn you MyMynx...pulling me into these threads.

If I happened to be at a bar alone and were chatting up some girl and she was looking for a code word all shed have to whisper in my ear is "Do you know lilmynx?"......

I am in on Globespotters #3. Easiest for all involved. Most who can make a donation on short notice don't have time or inclination for dinner dates or hit/miss bar negotiations. Oh - and let us know how your $2k friend makes it. Good luck to them all.

If I happened to be at a bar alone and were chatting up some girl and she was looking for a code word all shed have to whisper in my ear is "Do you know lilmynx?"...... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

And there is the perfect answer!!! I just need to make myself the universal code word!

Thank you, My Darling Bunny!

Spend a little time working at an FBO.

I'll tell you what you do. Post a threAD in coed announcing that you have hot utr's working for you and watch your inbox magically fill up in a couple hours.

GS already said he'd go in sight unseen, so make something happen. If he comes back to the board and reports that your girls are the real deal, that would be a pretty strong endorsement and your business will flourish.

Honestly, I think you're full of shit and you just have way too much time on your hands to post dumb irrelevant crap on the board all day, every day of your life. But if you're not bs'ing, and you really do have these hot utr's that you speak of, prove it. Make something happen. Hook GS up or another respected member so we can know if you're for real or not.

Boz, I'm just a really good multi-tasker with a sleep disorder...

I'll let GS weigh in about whether he thinks I'm for real or not if he's so inclined...

If I ran into a lady in the hotel bar I wouldn't consider her being up for a p4p situation.
I just would consider myself fortunate.
And if she were obvious about the situation i wouldn't be up for it because I wouldn't want to take the chance of potentially having a bad time without previous Intel.