talking about the wife

I see myself as a therapist. You can talk to me about your wife, work, sex or anything else you would like to get off your chest. Im all ears. Im here to put a smile on your face. Originally Posted by SexyKaylen

damn that is exactly what you want someone to say

Only thing I ever said about the Ex wife, was when she spread her legs it made the furnace come on. Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Its been a friggin cold March, would you tell her to keep them closed?

For some, the hobby is not just about sex. Many providers will tell you that the johns sometimes come to them more to talk and sex is secondary.

Its like a therapy session, but with a happy ending!

Keep your private life at home..

+1 not good ... kind of exhausting Originally Posted by Nia Baby

Talk about the wife? Why ruin a good time. Really, isn't this why we make appointments, to get away for a little while and not think about work, kids,,and WIFE!

For some, the hobby is not just about sex. Many providers will tell you that the johns sometimes come to them more to talk and sex is secondary.

Its like a therapy session, but with a happy ending! Originally Posted by BigMikeinKC

Hmmmm. Thinking about this for a minute...... Nope, it's about sex. Shrinks are cheaper if you need one.

Hmmmm. Thinking about this for a minute...... Nope, it's about sex. Shrinks are cheaper if you need one. Originally Posted by HeyMikeyHeLikesIt

no, its about whatever the guy wants.
He is paying for TIME, right? so if he wants to talk about his wife/GF, how he thinks gravity is a hoax, or watch tv, he can do that. eh?

Hmmmm. Thinking about this for a minute...... Nope, it's about sex. Shrinks are cheaper if you need one. Originally Posted by HeyMikeyHeLikesIt

Therapists are still cheaper... the blow and go isn't exactly a session. Lol. You can make her sit on the couch though, and she might role play "naughty therapist" with you.

She puts you on the couch, she's all professionally dressed (with naughty lingerie under)... she asks about your fantasies clinically, you describe them, she gets all hot and bothered and just attacks you because she can't help it.. license and all.

HA... Maybe we should start a best "naughty therapist" thread. Heh.

In all seriousness, if the girl is a real professional, she's an actress among other talents, and you're buying the fantasy... and that fantasy should be that anything you talk about, within reason, gets her hot and makes her want you... because you're going to get her anyway... Bad providers, they don't care about such nuances, or remember you're buying a fantasy... time well spent...

That's why they are bad providers

DISCLAIMER: The reader acknowledges they are not a licensed psychological professional who, upon reading this, immediately garnered an idea as to what to ask their patients in therapy tomorrow, and what they were going to do when they heard it... that's like...unethical....man.... and really, there is no pussy worth your license. I hope.... BUT....if there is... share that number!

I accept cash. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Yeah but can you give us a receipt that BCBS will accept?

I was trying to set something up via email with a provider who is not on eccie. She wanted to know things about me like where I worked, age, and marital status. I understand work for screening, but that AND whether I was married or not gave me a bad feeling in my gut so I politely said that I was no longer interested. I have only been with a few providers and none had previously asked for my marital status up front. Did I overreact?

I was trying to set something up via email with a provider who is not on eccie. She wanted to know things about me like where I worked, age, and marital status. I understand work for screening, but that AND whether I was married or not gave me a bad feeling in my gut so I politely said that I was no longer interested. I have only been with a few providers and none had previously asked for my marital status up front. Did I overreact? Originally Posted by gotovirgo

No, there are other fish in the sea. Find one that doesn't make you uncomfortable. It's your money, you can spend it how you want.

Trusting your gut is ok. I had a provider ask me my real name the other day, I asked what hers was and she freaked out about how she would never tell me that. I moved on

No worries mate!

DISCLAIMER: The reader does not agree to read this disclaimer or any disclaimers as you are not drawn to them out of habit... right... you always do not read them... then why are you!

I was trying to set something up via email with a provider who is not on eccie. She wanted to know things about me like where I worked, age, and marital status. I understand work for screening, but that AND whether I was married or not gave me a bad feeling in my gut so I politely said that I was no longer interested. I have only been with a few providers and none had previously asked for my marital status up front. Did I overreact? Originally Posted by gotovirgo

Not at all honey. We ask for what we need to make us comfy. If you are not comfy with it, you will not be comfy in the meeting. Find a lady that you are interested in that has screening that you are comfortable providing. It's supposed to be about fun, you don't want to be worried.

I see no problem with a gentleman that wishes to discuss his wife nor a problem with the gentleman that wishes to avoid the subject.

I agree with mike a date with a provider can be more than physically therapeutic, however the party in question must be open to it and the lady capable of both intuition and a open understanding mind.

Sometimes all a man needs is to discuss the problem with a sounding board to discover a possible solution. Sometimes all he needs is a place to disappear away from the problem. Sometimes it is as simple as tension relief or exploration.

Each gentleman has his own unique reason for seeking companionship from another just as each provider has her own reason for offering companionship.

I enjoy the individual and part of getting to know that individual is the intimate knowledge he departs. Then again I very much enjoy the confidante role and intend to eventually be a therapist specializing in couples and abnormal psychology (perhaps abuse victims but that is a decision for a later date)

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Sometimes all a man needs is to discuss the problem with a sounding board to discover a possible solution. ....... Then again I very much enjoy the confidante............ Originally Posted by JayceeRivers

The confident role is important. Many times we do not have anyone to discuss the problem with, or just serve as a sounding board. I had an retired older guy that I met with on a regular schedule about 35 years ago. He had been around my type of business for about 60 years at that time. His advise was very valuable, and he was the only person that I could trust to discuss certain things with.

On personal things: if all a psychologist is going to do is sit there and listen to you talk, you might as well have some sweet talk with a lady and get laid. Getting laid takes the tension off all by itself, if you can trust the lady enough to relax.

JR

[QUOTE=JayceeRivers;1055153046

Each gentleman has his own unique reason for seeking companionship from another just as each provider has her own reason for offering companionship.


As usual, Ms. Rivers nailed it. The above is something that more of us should remember before we hit the submit button on some of our posts.