What is the #1 rule for providers???

Rule #1 - RESPECT.

I agree with BSB & Grace.....respect and discretion goes a long way. Once we have established those ground rules, it's ALL sexy, fun and games after that!

Ok, second thread in a series of 50, just kidding.

What is the number one rule for providers?

Again hygiene is a given, so

I would say giving a guy your undivided attention during
a session, treating him like he is the only guy you will
see that day.

From reading reviews there are a lot of attractive girls in Dallas
that are hot but give a rather mediocre lack of IOP session,
that frankly in my opinion the hotness factor doesn't
make up for.

Sorry about the bluntness but there it is.

Girls if you treat a guy like he is just the next one in line
then he will act accordingly and will be just that. Just the
next guy in line that doesn't return for another visit,
and maybe writes a review telling about his ho-hum
experience that he had with you.

Followed by a bunch of guys that read the review and
decide not to get in that line. Originally Posted by bojulay

As long as your peers continue to pay for it and promote it, it will continue. LOL Some of your peers (in fact it seems most) dictate that slim body sets rates and volume, not pretty face or service. It's just the way it is love... sorry.

maybe i feel different being an older man, but i am not looking for love. not sure what the definition of IOP is, but i just hope both parties are having fun. a little laughter, and fun conversation goes great with some casual sex as far as i am concerned.
if i am not having fun, i have wasted my money and the ladies time. i sincerely hope she is able to have a little fun while she works.

maybe i feel different being an older man, but i am not looking for love. not sure what the definition of IOP is, but i just hope both parties are having fun. a little laughter, and fun conversation goes great with some casual sex as far as i am concerned.
if i am not having fun, i have wasted my money and the ladies time. i sincerely hope she is able to have a little fun while she works. Originally Posted by old-n-new

IOP is Illusion of Passion, while it may be defined differently depending on who you ask, IMO, it does involve having fun as you have described, but also the provider giving the hobbyist at least the feeling that he is glad he is a man, in so doing, moaning, sexy talk, eye contact, ect. during the entire sex play, without the over the top obvious faking.

I agree with BSB & Grace.....respect and discretion goes a long way. Once we have established those ground rules, it's ALL sexy, fun and games after that! Originally Posted by Kendall4U

+1. Good times. Noodle salad.

I would say giving a guy your undivided attention during
a session, treating him like he is the only guy you will
see that day. Originally Posted by bojulay

This is very true. I appreciate every friend that comes to see me because I know that they have so many options out there. When someone visits my place, he will never know if he's the only one because I'm clean & fresh, my linens are clean & fresh and the trash can is ALWAYS empty.

I never treat someone like they are just an ATM or have the attitude of "what can this fella do for me" While this is a business, I just can't treat people like they are just a number.

Next rule is good TCB skills. IMHO

I have two rules:

1. Have fun and cum

2. Attentiveness to my partner's needs

maybe i feel different being an older man, but i am not looking for love. not sure what the definition of IOP is, but i just hope both parties are having fun. a little laughter, and fun conversation goes great with some casual sex as far as i am concerned.
if i am not having fun, i have wasted my money and the ladies time. i sincerely hope she is able to have a little fun while she works. Originally Posted by old-n-new

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This is EXACTLY how I feel! If the provider can't relax, have fun and enjoy herself, while giving the client a great session, she shouldn't be in this line of work. I love to laugh, have interesting convo with my guy, and have passionate, fun, casual sex.
It's the best job in the world!

are guys supposed to be answering this one??? Originally Posted by Jarvis

Dude, the average emotional age on this board (not just guys) is 14... impulse control and need for ego validation are not in the paradigm...

I would have guessed single digits.

I'm talking about a girl that is genuine in the service she provides.

Your statement has gotten way off the page.

Also my statement would be in reference to that elusive
best case scenario Originally Posted by bojulay

You mean the ones that would do it for free, Lol would she even be called a provider if that's true