I've found it sometimes over crowded by dallas folks (not that i actually take issue with it)... and some dude randomly posting BBBW pics? (again, whatever knocks your socks). On the odd chance, i have been lucky to chat up some fine SA ladies there. Just wish more of ya'll were on.
I use yahoo messenger every so often when I'm logged into it. I think your profile has an icon listed with your username if you choose to list it as a contact option. It works for me but again, I'm not logged on too often.
I just dropped by this sites' chat, and well.... you can hear the crickets drop the needle.... It was too much fun I couldn't control myself. I had to leave.