So would it be OK if your wife/SO hobbied or rather you gave her permission to do so and in exchange she agrees to you hobbying ? Who knows maybe she also needs a bit of variety. And I will say this,doesn`t matter how sexy your SO/wife is -- having sex with her everyday can get boring really.. You just dont feel any novelty. Again it`s not that you don`t love her--Rather it`s just a physical need you desire-- like you eat in a restaurant once in a while
So I guess it should be mutual-she sees male escort and you see female escorts and everyone is happy !!