Curious-Do any SO`s allow hobbying?

So would it be OK if your wife/SO hobbied or rather you gave her permission to do so and in exchange she agrees to you hobbying ? Who knows maybe she also needs a bit of variety. And I will say this,doesn`t matter how sexy your SO/wife is -- having sex with her everyday can get boring really.. You just dont feel any novelty. Again it`s not that you don`t love her--Rather it`s just a physical need you desire-- like you eat in a restaurant once in a while

So I guess it should be mutual-she sees male escort and you see female escorts and everyone is happy !!
One of my AFT clients SO knows as a matter of fact we just had a session.

I must say it is fun when the SO joins in!
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Things that make you go "hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm"

P.S. (Jade Nicole...Your HOT, HOT, HOT!)
Funny how my mine / eyes work...when I first saw the title...i saw..."Do any SO's Swallow'

Not many, I'm guessing.....hell, getting a BJ is a rare treat at home!
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Funny how my mine / eyes work...when I first saw the title...i saw..."Do any SO's Swallow'

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  • 01-20-2010, 11:45 PM
Actually, my SO knows.

We tried swapping a couple of times with other couples. At the time she enjoyed herself, but would get a bit jealous later.

She likes trying other guys on occasion, so she had difficulty justifying why she should get to have fun, while I could not. Our compromise is that she wants to know nothing of where or when, and wants to hear nothing of my trysts. So, she asks few questions, and gives me great latitude.

In return, she partakes of the occasional tryst herself. It works for us!
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rn sweetie - "available resources"....hahahahahaha! Now, that's funny!

If I had an SO, I think that swinging from time to time for variety's sake might not be a bad deal for either of us, but I think that having a regularly available (and willing) sexual partner wouldn't hurt, either...LOL. But, a lot of guys are here because something is lacking at home.
Things that make you go "hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm"

P.S. (Jade Nicole...Your HOT, HOT, HOT!) Originally Posted by motocrossman39

Thank you MCM, Whats been taking you so long to get over here?


it happens.... more than you know.
That's how we get 200 new extra on & off providers every year.
Some have husbands that got tired and began to explore years ago.
So they figured well hell, we need extra money. (FYI- He has a seperate account for hobbying.) So she needs to have a new account for her personal swinger/girl-friend adventures. (lol *just a thought*)

Hate to disappoint but yes my SO allows and got me a BJ for my b-day lol. We also swing so this is not a big deal at all, she just wants to watch sometime lol.
My SO found two ticket stubs on the dresser for a movie that we did not go see...does that count? I did confess! Oh...that's not permission!
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I guess I live in Never Never Land then. Not only does my wife know and approve but she has joined me a few times. BTW Jade Nicole...she says 'thank you, you were amazing'

Some women do not require that their men stop being men once they marry. If she did, she would be an ex and that's the way my world is. My balls are mine and that's the way they'll remain.

Oh, and she loves the Vnurse 'personal touch' too...and a certain "infamous" one amongst us is another excellent lady according to the Mrs.

Should probably stop naming names as it might appear to be bragging.
Yes my SO encourages it and doesn't mind it at all. She wants to watch one of these days when I do this again
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llamma69...good for you. I highly recommend it
BTW Jade Nicole...she says 'thank you, you were amazing'
Originally Posted by JohnJohn
I can't wait 'till next time!