[Well listen, Listen, (what up, stutter!) the fact that you started this ole thread is telling enough. One, that you care and two, that you realize it's possible to come across as offensive even if your intent isn't as such (girls vs. women, etc). I mean, hell, if you want to talk about racism you don't ask a white dude, ya know? I, for one, appreciate that this topic is even being addressed, let alone being brought up by a man in this forum.]