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You're awesome, DownForWhatever! I apologize for misreading your post, it WAS a positive one, and thank you. And of course we'd love to see you but our schedules may never match again! She lives so far from me.
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BrownSugarBaby: You can disable your account at any time.{/QUOTE}
And BSB? Really? Disable my account? Thank you, I had no idea. That is a very sage, intelligent, well thought out and supportive solution. Very kind and understanding of you. I appreciate your compassion. So thank you for being such a decent human being to me.
So let's see, I DID disable my account when I took 15 mths off, and the way to handle not wanting to rude comments is just to disable it again, and essentially not work again. Thank you sweetie. But I love my job. I just don't like women who don't support other women and offer helpful suggestions, or think they're cute and make little typos like "ad". I guess the other option is to do what I normally do, just not post. But I have been trying to be more involved in the board, I learn a lot from everyone's posts, even yours BSB, (I have actually admired some on your insights; I always imagined you as a fun, nice person that I'd like to get to know); but I do get a lot of info from the forums that I didn't know, so it's helpful. And it's also a way to get to know someone elses' personality, and see if they're as pretty inside as they are outside. And SO many providers here ARE helpful to other providers. I had a crazy stalker last month and several women helped me out in the powder room, and he's gone now.
Originally Posted by GingerKatt
Setting all sarcasm aside . . .
There are many ways to effectively express your ideas, opinions, and experiences here. Perhaps you could've taken a different approach on illustrating on your experience with Jamie Jo.
With a thread like this - You deserve PA credit.
Nevertheless, people are quick to assume that any and every thread whereas the provider talks about herself, is some form of crafty advertising.
Sometimes, the self-promotion or self-advertising can be a bit annoying and quite obvious. Sometimes, It's not even the lady who is promoting herself - It can be her "White Knight" - and those can be annoying too sometimes. But hey, what can I say? It's all apart of the game here and you are going to have haters that are going to hate.
Also, my comment on disabling your account was only in reference to possibly maintaing your emotional well being, which I think is much more important than this business. Looking back at that comment, I apologize if that post came off as overly negative. Now that I think about it, it was totally unnecessary.
Nonetheless, Congratulations on your first doubles session, and thank you for sharing your experience. I also hope that the lucky gentleman will write a kick ass review soon! We need some proof in the pudding!
The thing is, I was excited last night and wanted to share it with people who would understand. Who else could I talk to? Not my sister. Not any RL friends. They've all kind of all disappeared as they found out what I was doing. So nobody. Well NOW it's nobody because I won't do this again, and I'll give up my crazy wish of having some provider friends to go out dancing and having drinks with. Sitting home alone cleaning house would be better than dealing with ignorance and cruelty.
I know the feeling, but I wouldn't voice it here in Co-ed. There are plenty of ladies here who are friendly, kind, and who can share your experience.
If you are looking for positivity, you all always welcome to post in powder room and/or seek out the ladies here who wouldn't mind being a friend. You are never alone.