Review: Disappointed with Roxy

That makes NO sense. I provider won't see you b/c some of the ads on BP are LE?
That doesn't make the gentleman caller LE - just makes him lucky to still be a free man. Originally Posted by gregster

Re-read what I said..

Re-read what I said.. Originally Posted by Bigpapa1

Yeah, but she said mostly BP girls - not that she couldn't verify him.

My only issue w/ her is that it was last minute. Its not like his reviews changed.

Tell him no or yes - totally the lady's choice. But not a yes and then at the last minute no - based solely on public information available from the start.

Happened to me recently as well - a no at the last minute. I have no issue w/ the no. I didn't like have $$$ in my pocket and no where to go but the casino.

Most reputatble girls like to plan and have advance bookings. Its a crap shoot to find someone last minute.

Not a huge deal - but would help avoid more bad feelings when there are sure to be some already

Imagine a provider telling a guy yes, and then door opens and she's like "oh no AA. Sorry". Litterally in his face. Just a better way to do it

Here comes MeanAss! Devils advocate...

I can not read the ROS, I am gathering from what I can read that this lady refused to visit with you at the last minute.

Bigpappa had made a great point, most established ladies will not accept BP as a legitimate references. For the most part, these young girls are fly by night with little to no discretion. Its more pimp/boyfriend cultural novelty than a business.

You guys may not realize that even though, yes, we are pros, we are still human, meeting someone new can make us just as nervous as you are, maybe even more so, we have no idea what to expect. Provider references can help ease the worry. When visiting with a total newbie the worry factor is amplified x10.

Now, In your case brkid1, You do not seem like as much of a newbie, however you also do not have a very impressive history either. From the point of view of a discerning lady, you seem like you may lack discretion. And what I mean by that is, you will "do" anything. You come across as a backpage troll. Maybe she was trying to give you a chance, and something you said turned her off and increased the worry factor to a tipping point, and she, as most ladies with the self preservation instinct, decided at the last minute,that the risk was greater than the reward. This is not uncommon.

Another point that I would like to make brkid1. Is that this is not your first NCNS review. You knew already well in advance, based on your past experience, that posting a NCNS in the review section is not in accordance with the guidelines. The the fact that you did it a second time, is also a testament to your character and judgement, or your lack there of. Do you understand what I am saying?

From my perspective, this lady made the right choice. Originally Posted by April Cox

She never once asked for reference or anything. She even apologize for not checking. I was mad at the time so I made the mistake of posting in reviews so don't tell me I lack judgement and character. Based on your response, I can tell what kind of character you are.

Not once in the review did I call her names or put her down. No need to make assumption about me and put me down based on my history. I've seen girls on BP and so have any other guys on here. Pretty sure some of your clients have seen girls from BP.

I understand provider not taking BP girls as reference and I'm ok with it. Just saying..be nice to know before driving all the way to the location and walking to the door. It's like me calling a girl for an outcall and when she gets there, I call her back and tell her I changed my mind cause she met with somebody I didn't like.

I am going to say this is a two way street, both parties can change their minds at the last minute
before any transaction starts.
You see advertising on a massage/spa,, ,, a decision change happens when you see the parking lot covered in litter or you go to meet an escort and she is in a seedy hotel.,,,,, shit happens. Ijs
happens with every business,,,,,