My negative fears of Swinging have been confirmed.
I don't want to be around a bunch of old, fat, hairy people. I'm sure a 3-some would be easy in that scene but the quality would be terrible. I will stick to my normal ways of trying to arrange 3-somes.
I wish I could just use 2 civilian girls but people get attached too easy & friendships get ruined so at least one of the girls needs to be a pro or stranger met at a club, like a one night stand type thing...