Guys asking about safety, girls quitting for getting their name ran through the mud, and "bullying."

Like AG, I'm sick about the toxic atmosphere in Coed. Yes, threads can be ignored by the individual - but they are still read as truth by others. The stench from the toxic threads affect everyone.

The two gals who have most recently gotten run through the wringer are 1) a SA legend with over 200 YES reviews - many OMG reviews and not one No. The second gal has over 50 reviews, again with not a single No. If you're going to run some gals off, run off the ones who give bad service!

Just because a Provider is supported by her vagina does not mean that a Provider is simply a life support system for a vagina. These "hoes" you humiliate are real, live girls with feelings and a real life who have chosen to make us guys feel good. Don't make them regret that decision. Originally Posted by OldYeller

It's not rocket science about guessing who these douche bags you are referring to. Eventually they will post here(one already has) because they can't help it. This is their life because they have failed the real world. Its a shame that people take this board this serious. It's only a hooker board people.

Recognition is power. This is very important! If you ignore these fucktards they will go away. Yeah it's fun to poke at them every once in a while but it would be nice to not see everyone responding to their idiotic threads. This gives them power. I'd suggest not responding to ANY of the threads they start. They can get their dicks hard by looking and the view counts all they want, But unfortunately there are plenty of fucktards in sa too that will respond. Originally Posted by newcumerz

Exactly what would you complain about if some of us weren't here?

Some deserve it. They refuse to hold client information as a sacred thing to themselves and out it to people in general.

Others earn the attention in other manners.

But......

Far more guys see ladies and never post to these boards........ Those that make it their life and seek here what they should in their real lives are simply pathetic..... Those are the whiners..... as well as the ones that run off.....

In between the occasional need to put some guy or lady in their place a heal of a lot of people seem to find value in the boards... including the owners that see the big picture....

The negative attention is really just about a handful of people.

Ladies that run ads in the ad section.... flirt and have fun... are truthful in their advertising..... never seem to have a single issue.....

When one of you outs a guy and others support her...... or when one files an alert on a guy that later turns out to be false but in the interim everyone rushed to side with her..... That is where the animosity is created.

Some Ladies get a bit too full of themselves and eventually they screw up and they get taken down..... Slave G went that route....... 6 months ago there was hardly a few that would say or think a negative thing about her...... Yes... She still has supporters......... But her reputation is tarnished and she will never have the stature she once had because there will always be someone in the mix to remind people that she does not value the privacy of personal information she gains in her interactions with others.

SL, please don't ask anyone to name the GOOD clients who left the board because they were tired of reading shitty threADs. Don't do it, man. Just don't.

...did someone called you a douchebag? Wow! Can you believe the vulgarity, not to mention, hypocrisy?

...Ijs
Edit to add.

If you're fine with your personal information being passed around carelessly and publicly, that's a pretty dammed dangerous way to hobby.
That sort of information should be guarded jealously and held closely, and it ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT BE BROADCAST PUBLICLY!

Also, if you're fine with gals posting fake reviews in order to get Premium Access thereby allowing her into the Private areas of the board, ask yourself if you wouldn't mind guys doing that shit in order to get into the Powder Room?
It's just deceptive and it's cheating the system. If you can't see the pitfalls that can result from this, then give it a little more thought or ask. I'll be happy to throw out some to ya'.

There's a reason they have a rule which strictly prohibits this. She broke the rule and she got caught. How in the hell is anyone else to blame for it other than her? We didn't create the bogus account nor did we post the bogus reviews. She did.

The only ones who really get called-out, generally have a reason behind that call-out. Bullying and answering for their fuck ups are two entirely different things.

Come on, man.

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Some deserve it. They refuse to hold client information as a sacred thing to themselves and out it to people in general.

Others earn the attention in other manners.

But......

Far more guys see ladies and never post to these boards........ Those that make it their life and seek here what they should in their real lives are simply pathetic..... Those are the whiners..... as well as the ones that run off.....

In between the occasional need to put some guy or lady in their place a heal of a lot of people seem to find value in the boards... including the owners that see the big picture.... Originally Posted by Whispers

Ok, I can deal with putting certain people in their place.

But...

There is a difference in how it is done. If us as providers were to put out the information of said clients in form of name, isp addy, workplace, license plate #'s ect, then yes, put them through a wringer, buy their mom a fish dinner and never call the bitch again. However, if it is something that simply came out in a manner other than you'd wish it would be, with no harm done, why begin an insult thread with OTHER members and then bring into the conversations and comments taunting and tale telling all in hopes to catch a rise? Yet it only develops into a name calling, child-like, "well your posts are stupid" kinda thread. Everyone gets heated. Could have been avoided by using a different vernacular. Then I have high end clients who just recently came out to me with "thank goodness you posted your #! I can't PM you for an appt because that board is full of drama!"

So then now, it affects ~A.G.~ I've been getting my toes stepped on because drama free clients can't get in touch in time, so my appointments have gone from my usual 6 a week to 3 a week. All because 1.) They read a negative thread on a provider who "deserved it" and it turned into General Hospital. 2) The providers they are attracted to are spoken of horrendously that "they rather not." and 3.) a partridge in a pear tree.
Whichever it is, it's gotten wicked. It's not as fun

One thing we must never forget. Provider or Client is that we are humans. We all have feelings and sometimes without intending to we hurt others or are hurt by them. Some of the most sweetest almost angelic peaceful happy souls that I have encountered were providers. Most have that crusty mental armour that builds up over the years, by virtue of being burned. Some were just the opposite, accepting compliments and favors promising this or that, then vaporizing into thin air. First and foremost no human being that walks this earth should be afraid of another. I know its not that way, but we were made to love each other and sometimes for some reason or another we stray from our prime directive, loving. Secondly, be honest. Why would I tell you that I'll meet you at such and such place at such and such time, then don't have the courtesy to call and say sorry but something took me away from that. All that does is build sore feelings and ultimately someone that is out for revenge. All of you are beautiful beings that are capable of either making someones day or making someone endure a living hell. As this discipline that has us gathered at this site as kindred spirit is born in eros. Let's wear the "T" shirt and love one another. What a concept!

Ok, I can deal with putting certain people in their place.

But...

There is a difference in how it is done. If us as providers were to put out the information of said clients in form of name, isp addy, workplace, license plate #'s ect, then yes, put them through a wringer, buy their mom a fish dinner and never call the bitch again. However, if it is something that simply came out in a manner other than you'd wish it would be, with no harm done, why begin an insult thread with OTHER members and then bring into the conversations and comments taunting and tale telling all in hopes to catch a rise? Yet it only develops into a name calling, child-like, "well your posts are stupid" kinda thread. Everyone gets heated. Could have been avoided by using a different vernacular. Then I have high end clients who just recently came out to me with "thank goodness you posted your #! I can't PM you for an appt because that board is full of drama!"

So then now, it affects ~A.G.~ I've been getting my toes stepped on because drama free clients can't get in touch in time, so my appointments have gone from my usual 6 a week to 3 a week. All because 1.) They read a negative thread on a provider who "deserved it" and it turned into General Hospital. 2) The providers they are attracted to are spoken of horrendously that "they rather not." and 3.) a partridge in a pear tree.
Whichever it is, it's gotten wicked. It's not as fun Originally Posted by ~Arriana Grey~

wait....wtf? a client stays away from messaging you privately because of drama threads that prolly dont involve u?

how does drama on the threads prevent a client from messaging u privately? phail.....

i saw this gorgeous blonde in 2013 who never posts in threads, doesnt advertise her #, doesnt advertise at all, n she is overloaded with potential clients.

Class, could someone give me an example of self-screening?

We have plenty of whores it's a good thing to cull a few from the herd, kinda like the wolves killing the old and sick deer in the long run it strengthens population of deer. You oughta watch national geographic for a more detailed answer. Originally Posted by Hiker78

Excellent!

wait....wtf? a client stays away from messaging you privately because of drama threads that prolly dont involve u?

how does drama on the threads prevent a client from messaging u privately? phail.....

i saw this gorgeous blonde in 2013 who never posts in threads, doesnt advertise her #, doesnt advertise at all, n she is overloaded with potential clients. Originally Posted by savak

A lurker. Actually a couple. One was a client who left not too long ago. Nice guy. I wouldn't post it if it didn't happen. I'm not about "gimme gimme."

Just something I became aware of through them. Through two now regular clients I had not been able to connect with before. Partially my fault because of the #.

Partially.

Yes, threads can be ignored by the individual - but they are still read as truth by others. The stench from the toxic threads affect everyone.

If you're going to run some gals off, run off the ones who give bad service!

Just because a Provider is supported by her vagina does not mean that a Provider is simply a life support system for a vagina. These "hoes" you humiliate are real, live girls with feelings and a real life who have chosen to make us guys feel good. Don't make them regret that decision. Originally Posted by OldYeller

Well said +1

Some deserve it. They refuse to hold client information as a sacred thing to themselves and out it to people in general.
You never did prove what kind of info she outed only the fact that she VOUCHED for him on a certain day not when she saw him or any other personal details again you do what you always do either tap dance around the situation or make a mountain out of a mole hill

Far more guys see ladies and never post to these boards........ Those that make it their life and seek here what they should in their real lives are simply pathetic..... Those are the whiners..... as well as the ones that run off.....


And again here we go with the bashing of people its a good thing we have you to set us straight oh wise one all hail the "Hobby Savior" let us all kneel before him!!! give me a damn break already.

In between the occasional need to put some guy or lady in their place a heal of a lot of people seem to find value in the boards... including the owners that see the big picture....
And I guess it is your job to put those people in their place when I thought that was the Mods job oh yeah that's right you are the "Hobby Savior" what you say goes

Oh wait wait I know your response already is it something like this

No I just post when there are people who complain to me because they are to afraid to spoeak up themselves

or is it this

I just post within the guidelines blah blah blah

When one of you outs a guy and others support her...... or when one files an alert on a guy that later turns out to be false but in the interim everyone rushed to side with her..... That is where the animosity is created.

Some Ladies get a bit too full of themselves
so do some hobbyists
and eventually they screw up and they get taken down..... Slave G went that route....... 6 months ago there was hardly a few that would say or think a negative thing about her...... Yes... She still has supporters......... But her reputation is tarnished and she will never have the stature she once had because there will always be someone in the mix to remind people that she does not value the privacy of personal information she gains in her interactions with others. Originally Posted by Whispers

You have still yet to prove anything. That hobbyist has never even come forward and complained about it. Why?? Just speculating but probably because there was nothing to complain about it was just you attacking someone that you don't like AGAIN!!!

But then Again you are the "Hobby Savior" so maybe we should all just shut up and let you just post whatever the hell you like whether it is true or not

We have plenty of whores it's a good thing to cull a few from the herd, kinda like the wolves killing the old and sick deer in the long run it strengthens population of deer. You oughta watch national geographic for a more detailed answer. Originally Posted by Hiker78

Class, could someone give me an example of self-screening?



Excellent! Originally Posted by OldYeller

Well said +1



You have still yet to prove anything. That hobbyist has never even come forward and complained about it. Why?? Just speculating but probably because there was nothing to complain about it was just you attacking someone that you don't like AGAIN!!!

But then Again you are the "Hobby Savior" so maybe we should all just shut up and let you just post whatever the hell you like whether it is true or not

ALL HAIL WHISPERS THE "HOBBY SAVIOR"

Originally Posted by a10bomb

The point is, that hobbyists name should have Never Been Mentioned Publicly. Period.

THAT'S the issue...which, along with the other indiscretions, creates what is called a pattern. These patterns of frequent indiscretions serve as a warning for the probability that it will continue.

With guys too quick to praise her and overlook the fact that this IS a problem, then you get factions. Factions disagree and debate ensues and on and on.

But keep the blinders on and keep on believing that this isn't a problem...it's just a matter of time before someone does get jammed up for that 'non-problem'. Just hope it's not you.

If you're so sick of gals (and guys) getting called-out, perhaps you should help convince them to stop fucking-up. There's a real solution to all of this.
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A lurker. Actually a couple. One was a client who left not too long ago. Nice guy. I wouldn't post it if it didn't happen. I'm not about "gimme gimme."

Just something I became aware of through them. Through two now regular clients I had not been able to connect with before. Partially my fault because of the #.

Partially. Originally Posted by ~Arriana Grey~

im sorry that sounds dumb.....

you indicate youre getting less clients, n clients are less willing to send u a pm because of drama centric threads that often have nothing to do with u.

if i was such a client seeking to avoid co-ed drama, that drama would prevent me from posting in coed, but not from sending a pm.

phail

im sorry that sounds dumb.....

you indicate youre getting less clients, n clients are less willing to send u a pm because of drama centric threads that often have nothing to do with u.

if i was such a client seeking to avoid co-ed drama, that drama would prevent me from posting in coed, but not from sending a pm.

phail Originally Posted by savak

No no, you don't get it. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right but I have no need to explain myself reqardless. I'm low volume bc I like it that way. I have a civie job that keeps me busy for the most part. I have my regulars I really enjoy my time with and Ijust so happened to have missed out on a few because of various circumstances pertaining to the board. We'll leave it at that.

No no, you don't get it. Maybe I'm not explaining myself right but I have no need to explain myself reqardless. I'm low volume bc I like it that way. I have a civie job that keeps me busy for the most part. I have my regulars I really enjoy my time with and Ijust so happened to have missed out on a few because of various circumstances pertaining to the board. We'll leave it at that. Originally Posted by ~Arriana Grey~

you stated that all this drama is slowing down clients from pming n u have to resort to putting a phone # in ur showcase to keep seeing enough clients to ur satisfaction.

im saying that makes no sense because if a client wants to see a provider, drama on threads will not intimidate a client from messaging a provider directly.