Question - am I on her shit list?

p411 has a feature to pre-screen. I use it, usually before they get to town, - it notifies the woman its screening only - if they travel here regularly, with the screening out of the way, you can pull the trigger and maybe pull off a last minute appt because the screening is done. You can't expect instant turn around and may need to wait for the next trip.

I had similar experience as C44 - waited and waited this week and have just now heard I'm ok.. but now my schedule is locked with other commitments...

Lastly, perhaps a gentlemanly PM here or on p411 checking on her trip with well wishes and hoping it's a success (so she'll come back).

It's a small thing that makes you different and stand out when she's sifting through the stack of requests and building her calendar next time.

Good luck

Wait,
It's not Alana Fontaine by any chance is it?

Nope. I'll respond to a pm if anyone really gives a shit but won't out her I the open. Plenty of pussy out there and she has a good rep so I'm sure she's plenty busy. I'll just take my silky balls elsewhere.

It could be that you did not pass their screening process. Sometimes it is hard to keep up with all the emails we get and be able to respond to everyone. Plus if they are like me they may not have mobile internet and can only get online at home. hope that helps

So a provider is in town and I have tried to schedule with her for later this week. I sent a PM and included requested screening info (email addresses of two recently seen indies.) I have tried to see her on past visits but have not been able to get schedules aligned. We have communicated via pm in the past but have never made it to confirming an appointment time.

So I try again this week - sent pm with screening Sunday evening for Wednesday appt. So far (Tuesday morn) my pm shows as unread.

Would I be correct in that by now she has more than likely seen a pm from me in her inbox and purposefully skipped it for whatever reason?

I don't care - it's her business to see who ever she wants - I'm just curious if that would be the hint she wants me to take to not bother with her again. Interestingly I got similar treatment from her traveling buddy on their last trip - sent pm, was asked to provide screening, replied with info and then never heard back. Originally Posted by tbone77494

I think a lot of these girls just get overwhelmed with emails and PM's. I saw a visiting provider last month and she showed me her list of emails when we were through and just talking. I was amazed how many she had. I have no idea how she could sift through that and pick someone. Hell, I was shocked I got in to see her. I think sometimes if you keep trying politely and nicely, you will eventually get their attention. Originally Posted by sharkman29

If the shoe was on the other foot, I'd just accept texting....no one wants to take the time to write an email novel on their phone.

yes

Have you ever seen me start a thread wondering why a hooker hasn't responded to me?

I'm a role model, bitches...

lol.

She just may not be interested any longer. It happens especially if she was on the fence to begin with. It's a strategy I use as well in the civie world. If I'm not interested I just cease communication. Women have been doing this for ages and to be honest it's the best way to let someone down easy.

Constantly probing as to why never works out in the guys favor. Originally Posted by Zanzibar789

I agree, either she will reach out or won't. Now, that's not to say other factors didn't suddenly appear. There could be a billion reasons, why she hasn't responded. Some people gave some suggestions, make the pm stand out. Alternate communication form, so you can try that. I just wouldn't blow up her phone or stuff her inbox with PMs. That can ultimately work against you. If y'all don't hookup it's not the end of the world. It just wasn't meant to be.

I would rather to receive a NO instead of none responding. It's petty.

Don't waste a second of your time trying to analyze a hooker's email or travel habits.

I would rather to receive a NO instead of none responding. It's petty. Originally Posted by lengninai

Boy, I bet you went nuts after sending out resumes.

Just attach one of these on your next PM to her......!!!!!!!

Boy, I bet you went nuts after sending out resumes. Originally Posted by pyramider

Lmfao now this is funny

Don't worry about it tbone. If she's that busy you don't want to see her anyway.

I'm a role model, bitches... Originally Posted by Wakeup

Not when it comes to reviews.