I Can't Go For That (No Can Do) - Dinner Edition

So, did you hook him up since it seems you're the only one that (appeared to) replied. Or did he spend the night on xvideo?

I don't kiss and tell, Darling. But suffice it to say, he welcomed my suggestions. Follow my advice. And a happy ending for all resulted.

A Saturday night for me and I'm generally doing the "tipping"... Originally Posted by Alyssa XOXO

And damn she tips well!! Shyte! Lol

Mynx, I see a lot of reasons he didn't get a response. Most listed here. Most ladies don't look in ISO often, he has no history, while said he'd pay 3-4, how do you get all the things done he wanted in that amount of time? His post was inartfully written and Slutty is probably not exactly a wise word choice. Plus from a provider standpoint, when does the envelope change hands? What happens after 2 or 3 hours and you figure out this is a total loss and there won't be any BCD. Just not a wise 1st date request in that forum in my opinion.

I would do not go on a dinner date (3-6hrs) unless it is a regular I know I enjoy spending extended time with. It would suck to go out to dinner with a new client for the first hour and a half and everything be fun and flirty, Then when it comes to BCD you don't click...

Idk what I would do in that situation.
I only do dinner dates & overnights with regulars.
I barely check the ISO. I guess I need to check a little more often.

I don't kiss and tell, Darling. But suffice it to say, he welcomed my suggestions. Follow my advice. And a happy ending for all suckers resulted. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

No doubt.

I'm not usually much on pre-session dinner dates but I have been out socially with a few providers for dinner or drinks after a session when we seemed to click really well. It was always a mutual decision....of course I covered the restaurant or bar tab but was never expected to pay any additional fees for her time.

I'm not usually much on pre-session dinner dates but I have been out socially with a few providers for dinner or drinks after a session when we seemed to click really well. It was always a mutual decision....of course I covered the restaurant or bar tab but was never expected to pay any additional fees for her time. Originally Posted by Russ38

And that's cool, too. I can't imagine anyone not waning to hang out and enjoy a nice meal with you, Russ! I know I would.

But that's a different story and I wouldn't expect you to pay a friend for that time.

This guy basically wanted someone to act really hot for 3-4 hours across several venues. I wonder if that's just simply too much to ask for most people. Which I totally get.

And though he did seem like he was asking for a lot in his post, it took me all of 1 email and about 5 min to ascertain what he really wanted which was quite reasonable.

That said, I'm a serial online first dater...and have been told, by numerous match.com and eharmony dates that I was the best date they ever had...even when we didn't go out again. I pride myself on being a great date even when I'm not into the guy. But, again, I've been doing that type of thing for a long (long) time.

Additionally, GenesisNicole, I've heard you are a great dinner date...if he hadn't liked my alternate suggestion, I was going to suggest he contact you.

I also totally understand Brooke Wilde's reasons for not wanting be Buck Wilde in public, lol....

I appreciate all the feedback, I was really hoping for some other viewpoints!

I'm not usually much on pre-session dinner dates but I have been out socially with a few providers for dinner or drinks after a session when we seemed to click really well. It was always a mutual decision....of course I covered the restaurant or bar tab but was never expected to pay any additional fees for her time. Originally Posted by Russ38

Same Russ, I prefer this organic approach myself. Just two people enjoying each other's company over a meal/drink.

Hopefully the gentleman doesn't get so caught up in wonderful conversation that he doesn't forget to feed the lady. Blue cheese olives does not a dinner make.

And that's cool, too. I can't imagine anyone not waning to hang out and enjoy a nice meal with you, Russ! I know I would.

But that's a different story and I wouldn't expect you to pay a friend for that time.

This guy basically wanted someone to act really hot for 3-4 hours across several venues. I wonder if that's just simply too much to ask for most people. Which I totally get.

And though he did seem like he was asking for a lot in his post, it took me all of 1 email and about 5 min to ascertain what he really wanted which was quite reasonable.

That said, I'm a serial online first dater...and have been told, by numerous match.com and eharmony dates that I was the best date they ever had...even when we didn't go out again. I pride myself on being a great date even when I'm not into the guy. But, again, I've been doing that type of thing for a long (long) time.

Additionally, GenesisNicole, I've heard you are a great dinner date...if he hadn't liked my alternate suggestion, I was going to suggest he contact you.

I also totally understand Brooke Wilde's reasons for not wanting be Buck Wilde in public, lol....

I appreciate all the feedback, I was really hoping for some other viewpoints! Originally Posted by LilMynx69

That's a good point Mynx, he was looking for something specific to fulfill a fantasy it seems like. An extended role play of sorts. I don't begrudge him that, whatever floats your boat, I hope he found what he was looking for.

Thanks to the Hobby Ambassador (cute by the way) it seems like he did

Hopefully the gentleman doesn't get so caught up in wonderful conversation that he doesn't forget to feed the lady. Blue cheese olives does not a dinner make. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Indeed, why that would be uncivilized!

Additionally, GenesisNicole, I've heard you are a great dinner date...if he hadn't liked my alternate suggestion, I was going to suggest he contact you. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

*curtsy* Mynx!

I must be one of the few that hawks iso. I like to cherry pick what I want. Find my fetish people, couples, North siders. But as far as a Dinner, public date, I do shy from them. I know too many people, I constantly run into. Im super social and i want descresion when I hobby as well.

I've done three lunch dates that preceded sessions. One was great, one so-so, one a disaster.

The great one was a small up charge with no real time limit, followed by an incredible 2 hr session at standard rates. I was already a regular and we did hit it off. It was priceless sitting in an Energy Corridor lunch place watching all the nerdy engineers drool over the super hot 20 year old redhead I was sitting with. Made the session very hot.

So-so one was a spur of the moment thing. Visiting lady asked f