I'm getting married this weekend!

I don't think he was either. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Me either... who the hell am I to judge??? A GOOD PORTION of my clients are married. So... is it ok to see escorts after 1 year of marriage, 5, 10, only if she gets fat, only if she won't suck dick?

Who are the hooker police?

While this is not something that fits with my PERSONAL private life morals, eyyyy ..... Hope you get laid and have fun honey! And I hope you do have a great marriage. In the end I want a companion, and not a fucker. If they can be both, very cool.

Any married guy here looking down on him is a moderate hypocrite. Any guy here dating a girl he might marry is a hypocrite.

The arguement that most men have there bachelor's party planned for them making it different if the same activities occur is a terrible arguement. If you are old enough to get married you are old enough to be responsible for your actions. Being drunk doesn't change that.

I think his request is a bit odd but I also don't hobby when I'm seeing someone. So some of you need to get off your high horse and get on a dirty girl because you are doing the same damn thing.

Don't pay any attention to her. She is just trying to promote her business.

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JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

JR; your comment was uncalled for, and out of line. You're rather fond of presenting your views as absolutes. While at the same time disregarding the validity of another,s view that might differ from your own. Have you always been so intolerant?

Any married guy here looking down on him is a moderate hypocrite. Any guy here dating a girl he might marry is a hypocrite.

The arguement that most men have there bachelor's party planned for them making it different if the same activities occur is a terrible arguement. If you are old enough to get married you are old enough to be responsible for your actions. Being drunk doesn't change that. Originally Posted by bigryan2222

Not the being drunk, but the planning it out. If I murder someone while drunk or in the spur of the moment, I may get charged for Manslaughter, but if I plan it out and murder someone I am getting charged for First Degree Murder.

I think his request is a bit odd but I also don't hobby when I'm seeing someone. So some of you need to get off your high horse and get on a dirty girl because you are doing the same damn thing. Originally Posted by bigryan2222

I was married for several years and did not hobby during that time, nor did I do anything at my bachelor party, (and yes there were strippers) so I am in no way "doing the same thing". I should not have been so quick to judge because we all have our own demons and this guy did not ask for my opinions, believes or thoughts on the matter. For that I was wrong, but for anyone to say I am a hypocrite and do the same thing...you are very wrong

Funny talkin about hypocrites and ethics in marriage on a silly hooker board....its like dogs and cats sleepin together

Funny talkin about hypocrites and ethics in marriage on a silly hooker board....its like dogs and cats sleepin together Originally Posted by BigDeal

Agreed. Sorry, but i had a momentary glimpse of morality...it will not happen again. My hobby face is back on and I say fuck morals and ethics and all that is good and right. Nothing good for you is ever much fun anyway. I will quit hijacking this post now.

Carry on OP and I hope you are good at keeping a low profile. Unless your soon to be wifey is down with the hobby...in that case you are a lucky motherfucker!

Good luck

Aaawww shucks JR you're the best! Why do I need to promote myself when I have guys like you around to do it for me??

And, that's right fellow hobbyists, I do bachelor parties, I dance on poles, (all kinds) I don't care if you're getting married or you are already married! And I'm a bad person for this! Hahaha!! But my money still spends the same. And I happen to think I help a lot of marriages. So, don't judge me you hypocrites! LOL! Originally Posted by Gemma34

Aw shucks yourself, I know you don't promote yourself on this site. Just kidding with you.

JR

JR; your comment was uncalled for, and out of line. You're rather fond of presenting your views as absolutes. While at the same time disregarding the validity of another,s view that might differ from your own. Have you always been so intolerant? Originally Posted by everyman kc

It is a joke; because it is stating the obvious. Duh, what? Of course she is promoting her business. Why else are the girls on here? Duh! What?

The world view from those outside hobby is an absolute that is not understood. The view of many in the hobby is an absolute that sometimes does not understand the view of the majority. Duh! What?

It not intolerant to state the obvious. Lighten up. Enjoy life. But look to understand what is happening with others, and when you search for the understanding of others: it is like doing your homework.

Play safe.

JR

Agreed. Sorry, but i had a momentary glimpse of morality...it will not happen again. ..... Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

Well, it has been an interesting discussion; we all have started thinking about things. I have no problems with discussions.

I have seen a lot in the hobby, and the most immoral thing I have seen is the ladies who have gotten beat-up: either by a client, or by management. In my life, I have seen war, and I have seen mean-evil people. I have had two wives die, and the third one that is very frail and sick. I have raised two families, and inherited a third.

Women are people too, but for many guys sex is about power and control - and that is immoral.

The best analogy that I have thought of, and I give it to anyone who wants it, is a comparison between life, and the relationship between man and women to the game of chess.

The most important piece on the board - the King. But the object of the game, is to kill the king (by honor, the final blow is not taken). He may be important, but he can only move one space at a time. Thus, he has to rely on others for both his power and protection.

The most powerful piece on the board - the queen. Just like in society, she can make almost any move she wants within the limit that she can not jump over the tops of other pieces. But the main purpose of the Queen is to protect the King.

The Bishop move diagonally as many places as it wants and represents the church and its' control on society, and the rules that the church as brought to us.

The Rook (that looks like a fort) moves horizontally and vertically and represents the government and administration of society and the rules that are brought to us by the government.

The knight and the pawns are the military and represent the power of the military in society and the rules that are brought to us by the police/military for the control of society.

Women are people too, but for many guys sex is about power and control - and that is immoral. Originally Posted by JRLawrence

There is nothing wrong with sex being about power and control as long as all parties involved are consenting adults and no one is forced to do anything they do not want to do. I'm in no way saying that the man has to have the power and control by the way. I have always wanted to give up all control to a women and be her sex slave, but just haven't found the right woman.

This is way outside the topic at hand by the way and can probably fill up an entire thread by itself so I will stop typing in a minute, but I had to bring it up because of the fact that you are saying it is immoral. As a few others pointed out already though, wrong and right, morality and ethics have no place here because we all have different demons we are trying to appease and what's right for some may not be right for others. I say as long as it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone...have at it.

There is nothing wrong with sex being about power and control as long as all parties involved are consenting adults and no one is forced to do anything they do not want to do. I'm in no way saying that the man has to have the power and control by the way. I have always wanted to give up all control to a women and be her sex slave, but just haven't found the right woman.

This is way outside the topic at hand by the way and can probably fill up an entire thread by itself so I will stop typing in a minute, but I had to bring it up because of the fact that you are saying it is immoral. As a few others pointed out already though, wrong and right, morality and ethics have no place here because we all have different demons we are trying to appease and what's right for some may not be right for others. I say as long as it feels good and doesn't hurt anyone...have at it. Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

Yes, we could start a thread; I just have never done it. But I will answer this.

Your comment depends on the definition of morality, which is not limited to sex.

When you have been around enough years, and seen enough, you will realize that the real reason the hobby is illegal (and by that I am not talking about a sick bird) is because of the abuse that the ladies receive from some of the guys. As a male, I was taught that it is our obligation to help to protect the ladies. They are the mothers of out children. A guy who takes advantage of another is not much of a man.

JR

Not the being drunk, but the planning it out. If I murder someone while drunk or in the spur of the moment, I may get charged for Manslaughter, but if I plan it out and murder someone I am getting charged for First Degree Murder.



I was married for several years and did not hobby during that time, nor did I do anything at my bachelor party, (and yes there were strippers) so I am in no way "doing the same thing". I should not have been so quick to judge because we all have our own demons and this guy did not ask for my opinions, believes or thoughts on the matter. For that I was wrong, but for anyone to say I am a hypocrite and do the same thing...you are very wrong Originally Posted by GiveMeLibertyOrGiveMeHead

If you kill someone in a car accident while drunk you get vehicular manslaughter. If you kill someone in a car wreck while sober it takes something special to get charged with a crime. See, we can both use hyperbole in our examples that doent have to do with the actual issue.

Quoting me for your proclamation that you didnt do it while married is odd especially when I specifically say anyone who is married for example. There is a reason I phrased it the way I phrased it. I also dont think it is my business if a married guy fucks a hooker unless it actually involves me in a not too indirect way. You seem a bit defensive for my comment that was signalling out people that you are not supposedly a part of.