Boy. A tough crowd here today!
Guys are always asking silly questions. It's how you handle it that makes all of the difference in the world.
The alert section is for actual alerts that are about threats to self, not getting paid, cash and dash, etc. But I'm guessing that you've picked that up since reading the responses already.
I did wish to invite you to the infoshare area of Eccie, though. It's a place where we can, more or less, let down our hair and complain or discuss our concerns.
Other than the moderators, no males can see the section.
I'm in a bit of a time crunch right now and haven't checked your profile but if you've been here a certain amount of time, and have posts and reviews, you might qualify to be a part of the ladies, only powder room.
All verified providers have access to the infoshare areas. You'll need to be admitted to the powder room.
Take a deep breath and it'll be alright. Everyone makes mistakes.
And if you have any further concerns, why don't you post them in the infoshare area, unless they pertain to the male members here.
Less flaming in there. Sometimes.
Best,
Elisabeth