Private Messaging Discreetness? Thoughts? Poviders and Hobbyist Chime in!

So I can't contact a fellow hobbyist brother on eccie about a provider? I can't do that just because some provider has some vague stipulation on her website? Originally Posted by FastEddie69

Not just "some" provider, a provider who YOU contacted for an appointment. Stop embarrassing yourself. Furthermore, everyone talks here, mods read all of our PMs and people share private info. If you don't want your business in the open, don't assume what you say here is really private, like EW indicated.

As for everyone else, I'm out of here. I'll be back in town on the 12th.

At any rate, good learning experience!

Thank you Gwen but not to worry about my embarrassment, I'm just helping your marketing and entertaining myself. Pro Bono hun! Very interesting stuff

This site and others like it are designed for hobbyist to share information about providers, both positive and negative, in public and private. I commonly shoot a pm to hobbyist about reviews and try to get a little more detail before I see a provider and have dodged more than 1 bullet by asking. Too many hobbyist write reviews for PA credit and to curry favor with providers and not from a perspective of what my fellow hobby brothers would find useful in booking a session. Things like stretch marks, mommy tummies, BBW's described as "thick", bad attitudes, horrible TCB skills...etc go unwritten out of fear or simply not wanting to be the bad guy. I understand, so that's why I reach out and ask straight up.

Forwarding or sharing PM information, in fact sharing any private information (Locker room, ROS from reviews) is against the rules and in general just poor form.



Just my .02

Wow!!! Someone must have their chones in a wad! Whats going on with everyone having melt downs??

Well anyways most hobbyists know proper etiquette when contacting a provider. If you don't know etiquette then you better learn it. As for talking about providers in private, mens lounge, etc....Just know anything you say will get out regardless. Just saying.

Fast Eddie.....well you better learn some etiquette really fast! lol As for trying to get more info on a provider, you should read her website or since you have premium access, read her reviews. I think that should be more than enough information about a provider. I know that some providers have their menu on P411 so that should help too. Some providers have protocol on how to contact them so right there is a lesson in etiquette. Also when going to visit a provider, be sure you are showered and clean and smelling good as a provider would do the same as well. Have your donation in an envelope marked "Gift" and have it in plain sight. Another etiquette lesson right there.

Other than that, happy hobbying and have an awesome Titty Tuesday!

Thank you Phillip for your excellent contributions to this post. Yes, I'm in complete agreement, that's why I shook my head about it. Yes, I was completely turned off by the lack of discreetness on every party. I mean, I'm trying to picture, hobby brother texting a provider, "hey, X hobbyist just asked if you would talk his time away" Provider: Oh yeah, well I'll make sure to give him my opinion on world peace for as long as I can....lol Inside trading ala hobby.

A little loyalty towards your hobby brother would be great guys!

-Semper Fi

Yes Your Majesty!! Your wish is my command..lol Well stated! I did follow the protocol for screening but my inquiries were put on blast by the provider in question.

Etiquette works both ways, don't you think Your Majesty?

Next topic of discussion is this clip..lol Form fitting this post and fatty Tuesday! HA!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSuvOVH0aSQ

Not just "some" provider, a provider who YOU contacted for an appointment. Stop embarrassing yourself. Furthermore, everyone talks here, mods read all of our PMs and people share private info. If you don't want your business in the open, don't assume what you say here is really private, like EW indicated.

As for everyone else, I'm out of here. I'll be back in town on the 12th.
Originally Posted by SimplyGwen

If I may...

Point of order...

Mods cannot read anyone's PM's unless they have been reported to them with the icon or they have been forwarded to them directly by the recipient.

If I may...

Point of order...

Mods cannot read anyone's PM's unless they have been reported to them with the icon or they have been forwarded to them directly by the recipient. Originally Posted by Mokoa

That's not what soulmanike (houston mod) told me. In fact it went like this, "These girls tell all their business on PM and have no idea we can see it all. LOL" This is precisely why I don't handle my appointment booking on this site.

Yes Your Majesty!! Your wish is my command..lol Well stated! I did follow the protocol for screening but my inquiries were put on blast by the provider in question.

Etiquette works both ways, don't you think Your Majesty? Originally Posted by FastEddie69

FYI......the email you sent Gwen has been posted and you made yourself look like an ass then you try to apologize.


Whats up with that? Learn some etiquette please. That is all. Happy hobbying. Good day.

Holly crap what a shit storm! You women go through a lot of stuff I think the least a hobbiest could do is have a little bit of courtasy. My gosh some peoples kids

And didn't you know, I am Fast Eddie..... lol Originally Posted by FastEddie69

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Holly crap what a shit storm! You women go through a lot of stuff I think the least a hobbiest could do is have a little bit of courtasy. My gosh some peoples kids Originally Posted by thatsme67003

Have you read this yet??

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1101692

Have you read this yet??

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1101692 Originally Posted by Majestycctx

Fellas, this is who you are gonna trust with employment verification? Discreet my ass, it specifically says on gwen the gem's website that it would be handled confidentially... Hmm, I see, so that's why my screening requests/emails were plastered on this forum. So I guess being discreet, confidential, and professional is all bs marketing or when her egotistical ass doesn't get out of hand. This site is a crawling liability and yes I refuse to play your hooker game . If I ask hobbyist if the provider freaking swallows, I want to freaking know . If I wanna know about how clean she is, I'm gonna ask. If I want Greek, I'll ask specifics.

It seems like there is some unwritten rule that I gotta go to the provider. Do I walk on the car lot and tell the sales manager to help me in buying a car.. Lol no, I do my research contact people , perhaps somebody that has had the model, financing, etc. Same with booty! Duh, but I'm going back to my planet as soon as the mods contact me. Buyer Beware!