What drives your hobby budget?

time is also not on my side, but as far as budget goes its like funding any other hobby of mine. all depends how well I've been doing in the markets. days i do really well i can't help but think about celebrating with a lovely lady but i can't ever get a decent break during normal hours. I'll admit this hobby isn't the first place i spend my money. still too much risk for only a short term reward, but i still play when i feel like it, or if i come across someone just too hard to resist, or when i have time and i don't know what to do with it, lol

I am limited much more by my schedule and the realities of provider screening than I am by my wallet. This means that I very often see the $100-$150 girls because they are more likely to advertise immediate availability and not require screening.

If we had "walk-in" places like they do in Tulsa, I'd be much more likely to pay $250 per hour. When I find myself with a free hour and the desire to play, I'm willing to pay for that convenience. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

Exactly this. For me, it's time and availability over money as far as importance in making my decision. This also tends to drop me into a 30 minute session at times when I would prefer a longer one. Both of these tend to define my play budget.

Small business owners may have a more difficult time finding a trustworthy business associate to leave in charge & balance not losing business than corporate employees. But once things are good at delegation of duties, letting the business run itself should allow for a comfortable 4-6 weeks of vacation.
A visit to a lady can certainly be more expensive than just the consideration she asks for her time.

For me there are a few different reasons. I use the hobby as a reward to myself for closing a new client or signing a new contract. It works as a pretty good motivator. Who I see and how much I spend is often dictated by the size of that contract, although that isn't the only factor. Sometimes I want to spend an hour or more with somebody higher up on the scale and really get into the GFE feeling. Other times I want to spend 15 minutes getting a mouth hug before I go drinking with the boys. Maybe my back is tight and I need a massage so I'm killing two birds with one stone.

Sure, price always plays a role in deciding who to see. But the experience I'm going to have plays as big a role.

copay's for viagra really affect my hobby budget....... damn you lil Bigdeal!

Interesting thread.
However, is it looks or skills that make you want to choose them? Is it skills, menu or looks that make the higher rates worth paying?

Interesting thread.
However, is it looks or skills that make you want to choose them? Is it skills, menu or looks that make the higher rates worth paying? Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

in this order
1 convience-if I have to drive 30minutes, give you 8 references, etc, I don't want to mess with you, I'll find some one else

2 looks
I want a gal I can't get on my own,
young, dark(hair)/tan, in shape, great smile

3 menu
although if she fits 1 and 2, I'll handle the rest

I found a gal like that on BP, she didnt require references first time(plus I live in a nice area home, she used to work for EF, under 25, does outcalls
$200/pop, but worth it

Hell I would drive to San Antonio to meet a woman if I thought we would have a good time. I am in this for the fun of it. I want to meet more fun women. I am not rich but I do try to find women that are smart, sexy, funny and look good enough that they don't scare children. I steer away from the young ones for several reasons. I don't have time to train them and they have pimps. I don't do strip clubs nor do I buy lottery tickets they are the same. I enjoy being out with a woman and hate for a woman to think I am an ATM machine.

I enjoy being out with a woman and hate for a woman to think I am an ATM machine. Originally Posted by tucson

I'm sure they dont think your an ATM machine, thats why sometimes they forget to get paid, they are just having too much dang fun.,
you must scare them pretty good if you gotta drive to San Antonio to find a women,
sheesh

Interesting thread.
However, is it looks or skills that make you want to choose them? Is it skills, menu or looks that make the higher rates worth paying? Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

YES!!

For me, it's intelligence, personality and sense of humor that separates the truly great ladies. It's a given that they will be attractive, have a reasonable menu and be well skilled. The other attributes are what make for a truly wonderful experience.

Bigcock Texas is a big state and we have parties all over. I have enjoyed many M&Gs where I meet many beautiful women. There is always some party to go to and it is hard to decide which one to attend. I have heard tales of nothing but guys at the parties but it ain't so. The rules are well defined and all animosity is left at the door. I always have silver dollars and marking pens. I take panties and tag asses.

Mine is usually $2-3K a month, but I have a SB that soaks up some of that.

I should have read some of the responses first.........I own my own company, and have discretionary income that I can allocate to the 'hobby' I usually go the sugar baby route for most of my full service needs. Although, I am thinking I might need to rethink that. Having a quality provider, even at $500.00 an afternoon, might be better value, and more satisfying than what I have had lately. Good thread, by the way.

Hank, I also have a business and spend 1000 + / month. I take it from the business. Any sugestions as to expensing categories that fly at tax time.

I told BDS this week that she keeps my blood pressure down. So I will write it off as medical expenses. Now if I could use my doctors office as an out call that would save some dollars.