Newly Single

I can give you my 2 cents... I took it easy for a long time. So much depends on your own situation though, everyone has different circumstances. In my case I focused on raising kids and enjoying the moment of no spousal stress... the peace in the household was grand. 15 years later I am still single... I do chase from time to time these days though.
Good luck... Originally Posted by canyonman

I agree with canyonman, I have been VERY single for over 1 year and have not even considered getting into another "relationship". My children have always been and continue to be my focus.
Although I do have an advantage. . . I have a new "boyfriend" EVERYDAY.
Good Luck Love, and come on over so I can relieve some of that stress.

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Carguy...no one can tell you what is right to do. Everyone is different, but I can tell you that you sound like a stand up guy! Children are the most important, but don't leave their dad swinging in the wind...take care of that guy! Sounds like you need some extra attention...get many massages and cultivate the friendships that will carry you through this time. That being said .... definately do the things that you've always wanted to do but didn't because you were married! Take your time and get you where you need to be! Oh, and BBBJ's are always on the RX list.