I get a text a few mins after I leave saying I shorted her 20 dollars. I said, "No you ECCIE ad specifically stated $20 off." She comes back with, "But you contacted me through P411 therefore no discount." WTF, REALLY? Even after I stated that i saw your eccie ad, you were wanting to charge an extra 20 on me?
Point being that it's not always 100% clear. It wasn't in my case and it didn't appear so in nothingtolose's case. Originally Posted by MoneyManMatt
That reads like a case of bad TCB. It is up to each and every Lady to run her business how she sees fit, however, having two different rates on two different websites that our local Gentleman frequent, just leads to miss communications, and misunderstandings. Unless you preface the special "For the Gentleman of ECCIE Only". Even then, it can be implied that you are giving special consideration to one group of folks and not the other. Having everything consistent across the board is just simpler for everyone.
At least once a week, a Gentleman will leave, neglecting to leave a donation. They just felt so good during our session, they felt as if they were with a friend or their girl, and it honestly just slips their minds. I get a hurried knock at the door a second later, or I sent them a quick text, and they turn around right away, apologize profusely, and leave it on my counter. It's often a high compliment, and not an intentional act. I find I will get so much further with someone, by extending them the benefit of a doubt, rather than approach them in an accusatory manor.
That being said, I have had my one hour, $90 donation shorted $20. I do what I do and text him, not getting a response until later in the evening to a message I sent via PM. This is understandable as many of you use hobby phones, and they tend to stay locked in a glovebox until needed. We exchanged messages for a week, and he told me he had every intention of bringing me the missing funds and how embarrassed he was. He just had to work out logistics as he was in North Austin, and he doesn't come my way, just south of downtown very often. I understand, no problem. Then the messages stop.
Okay, $20 is not a great deal of cash on it's own, granted. But as a percentage, it's 22% of my hourly donation, for the service he selected. I think that figure speaks for its self.
He never brings, or sends me the cash, nor makes another appointment.
A few months later, I start receiving messages from Ladies for reference requests for this Gentleman. This honestly, takes balls. I PM him, kindly remind him of our outstanding issue, as I have kept all of our PM's, I forward them to him. He is again mortified, and promises he will take care of it. I inform him that I can not and will not provide a reference for him until this matter is cleared up. I view a reference request as an after session curiosity, and is included as part of a session, and extension of my TCB. We even talk about different options, available to send me the missing donation. Keeping in mind, he had been to my incall, and this could have been settled months ago, with and envelope and a stamp. Still, to this date, no remedy has been extended or followed through.
For myself, these kinds of situations boil down to personal integrity. You either have it, or you don't. He was honestly a kind fella, until he wasn't. In retrospect, I know how fortunate I am for this being the only unresolved donation issue I've had. I also take steps to avoid any confusion, and all expectations are clear. Donations are always listed in my first contact, and verified in my reservation confirmation. If the Gentleman has requested an add on item, then I sent an additional email(s) we talk about it, then all pertinent information so everything is clear for both of us.
The last thing I would want is for someone to leave upset over a donation issue, they should be fully relaxed and happy....and having one hell of a time walking to their automobile!
