Question for providers and hobbyist

Zipster, this is normal for a lot of new guys that come on here. They don't fully understand what this place and the girls are all about. When you say "connection" it can be interpreted as "relationship".

Providers are an intangible service in a way...not meant to be bought, sold, loved and taken home with you. Lots of Providers and clients do see each other off the clock...maybe you want to help her with a few things around her house or car. Nothing wrong with that; I've done it because I really liked this girl; she was cool.

If you feel like hanging out with a Provider and she's cool with it, too, you might want to get a few ground rules up front. Just so nobody gets their feelings hurt down the road.

And believe it or not, relationships have worked here. But the odds are against it.

Thanks Prolongus, good advice! I have offered to be a shoulder to cry on or just someone to talk to for 2 in particular who were going thru some tuff times. I think a lot of times providers are looking for that...a voice outside of their normal circle. I'm sure they have plenty of jerks who couldn't give a damn about them other than getting in their pants! I know that this is fantasy land, but for me, I find that "connecting" with them makes the experience even better! Anyway, I've got some good feedback and it is appreciated!

simply put, it won't work if you consider a relationship.. you lose the fun when you doing so

Not just think about, but talk to every day. I still talk to that Australian hacker a couple of times a day, whether its instant messages or skype calls. I'm getting so good at skype sex, I'm considering webcam work! lol

I have other clients I keep in touch with on twitter too.

zippy, connect all you want ... what could possibly go wrong?