Providers, am I a total bitch … or do you get annoyed when potential clients ask for a special when you haven't advertised any specials?
I think its rather rude to ask, unless inquiring about multi hour appointments.
Asking for a discount , and an outfit request in the same instance?
Shit like that makes my eyes roll!
Originally Posted by LaylaStorm
First off, I know you asked for just providers to weigh in on this topic. I am NOT a provider, mostly because none of you women could afford my rates....however...I would love to become the "male provider to the female hoogars of eccie" so keep that in mind.
Now, to your point...there are two other ways to deal with this besides being angry.
1). Realize probably some of the guys who contacted you have saved for months for that one dream experience with a beautiful lady. And they just couldn't afford your asking price. So they politely (I assume) asked if you would consider granting their wish...their dream...their desire to see ONLY you. Forsaking all others they sought you out...probably living on Ramen Noodles & tap water for months to afford to even offer. And you shattered their dreams in a nano-second.
Or...they didn't think you were worth the rate you ask and offered $37.50....
2). You can put in your profile....
I DO NOT BARGAIN....and that will be the end of it...no one who doesn't want to pay your rate will bother you....(maybe a couple who are reading impaired, but that comes with advertising on a cattle call web site.
We had a girl not long ago come on here venting because guys were actually trying to TALK TO HER through IM's! Imagine that...wanted to make a semi connection before dropping serious money for a meeting. The nerve of some guys, eh?
The net of all this...seriously....there are NO rules against asking for a different rate. The rules of the board simply don't cover that, nor should they. Its an open bid marketplace like eBay....some accept bids, other have "buy now" pricing...if you want to play in this space (or other play sites I assume) then accepting that there are no rules against this practice seems the wise choice to me...
The solution? Again...very simple...just put in listings....
*I don't negotiate, reciprocate, errudiate, regurgitate, or exfoliate until you agree to fornicate".
I promise...you will see the number of bothersome IM's drop prodigiously....
I hope this has helped some?