P411 & Trouble Scheduling Fun

Fantastical's Avatar
I think Grace pretty much covered the speculation part but I can also add that there have been a few updates on the site & when logging in, it mentions something about some requests being sent to the provider email, rather than the actual inbox. So if said individuals do not check or look for requests in their email, they may not be aware of your requests.

Of course it's easy for hobbyists here in the Dallas area to just send a pm thru Eccie, but for those that travel or in other Parts of the country where the boards are not as active, P411 actually helps a lot in screening & scheduling an appointment.

Reviews also help a bit, but a pm to the provider or providers you would like to schedule with, after a screening request probably wouldn't hurt either.
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Same here man. I'm fairly new to the site, but I swear I was just thinking how frustrating it is to set up appointments. I mentioned it on my last review. But reading some of the providers post here, I can see why.
Well... in my case I have noticed that unless I manually log in to P411 the appointment requests don't always go straight to my inbox. So, if I log in to post my ad on the board's I see messages or appointment requests. Not sure if this might be part of your problem scheduling. If someone calls as a follow up to a request and is nice and polite and there is a clear pattern for hobbying activity I usually am happy to schedule. Originally Posted by LinaSkye214

You can, and personally I would, adjust that in your settings.
You can, and personally I would, adjust that in your settings. Originally Posted by Alyssa Marie
I have tried. Some just automatically go to another folder no matter what I do I may play around with a computer and see if I have better luck. I do most of my scheduling and such with my android phone right now. Otherwise I love P411 for scheduling and verifying clients. Honetly I give preference to P411 clients.
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Depending on what kind of email you have set up, you may want to try checking "promotions" folder if I'm not mistaken.. You may or may not receive a notification from P411 saying that a request has been sent to your email, but if you log into your P411, go to profile & in the account settings there is a way to adjust this to setting to send requests to your actual inbox, rather than your email or whichever you prefer.
Thanks to all that provided responses. This no Great drama, just a little inconvenience. And, given that I travel all the time and do not hobby often in some way compounds the issue. It just seemed a few years back, the welcome mat rolled out with P411. These days not so much.
To answer the OP's original question I would speculate that the ladies want current Okays. From my experience ladies want the okay to be within the last 90 days.

I never have a problem scheduling with p411. It is so awesome because it is so simple.

I can make a suggestion that might help you. A lot of times I will pm 3 or 4 ladies, to see if they are available. If you do this you have a better chance at getting a response. The only down side to this is if all of them respond (which does happen often). I try to stay low volume so I only do one appointment a day, which means I can't see the others that day but I can the next day. Try sending several PM's and see what happens.

P411 is by far and away the best hobby tool available. I have been a member since 2006 and have a lifetime membership. I would keep trying with it. The ladies on p411 are awesome, the site is ran very well with a lot of integrity and Gina is fantastic. I am not sure how anyone hobbies without it. I would highly recommend p411.

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jbravo_123's Avatar
We've also found P411 to be extremely valuable and convenient. Too bad we missed out on the lifetime memberships though
P411 & Eccie are great tools that should be used together. Cross-referencing helps a lot. I ask for both of the clients handles. He may have many Okays on p411, but his posts on here may turn me off of him. Or when I look at his profile, I may notice things that suggest we will not be a good match. In which case, I always PM them back and let them know to see if they would like to continue.
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P411 & Eccie are great tools that should be used together. Cross-referencing helps a lot. I ask for both of the clients handles. He may have many Okays on p411, but his posts on here may turn me off of him. Or when I look at his profile, I may notice things that suggest we will not be a good match. In which case, I always PM them back and let them know to see if they would like to continue. Originally Posted by Jillian Price
Agreed. It works for our side as well. It's very helpful when ladies list their activities on P411, especially when in search of rarer activities such as the bisexual + couples-friendly providers. When they also post on ECCIE, it gives more information on whether or not you'll likely click during the session.
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Depending on what kind of email you have set up, you may want to try checking "promotions" folder if I'm not mistaken.. You may or may not receive a notification from P411 saying that a request has been sent to your email, but if you log into your P411, go to profile & in the account settings there is a way to adjust this to setting to send requests to your actual inbox, rather than your email or whichever you prefer. Originally Posted by Fantastical
P411 most times affords a look at a providers menu. So I don't have to read endless reviews.
Lately though, I've noticed that some providers have removed their menu.
I can't imagine why???
Thanks to all who have contributed to this thread. As a lifetime member to P411, it has been a great service and convenience. In the past, it seems that it was the must have tool in the providers tool box (besides the ...ahem). Lately, it seems that you have hobby 2-3 times a month to maintain your credibility with P411. Again, this only with Some providers and it really rises to no great drama in my life. It is just a curious change I noticed and I thought to ask others for their opinion to compare notes.
I understand your frustration Johnjay. A lot of the top ladies do not post or even advertise here at Eccie-mart anymore and are almost exclusively using P411 for their marketing and screening.

Since the "life span" of the typical provider's immersion in the hobby is very short, it is easy for references to go stale. Many ladies will not count "stale" okays as good references if they cannot communicate with her. Couple that with a massive amount of ladies with poor TCB skills and that adds up to difficulty for the infrequent hobbyist to even get screened.

I am afraid you are just going to have to fuck more often and choose ladies known for their TCB skills rather than their ability to run their mouth on a discussion forum.

Happy hobbying!

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I have been on P411 for a couple of months now and I have acquired a few ok's, but I haven't really reaped the benefits of it's usefulness yet. I think it may be more beneficial to people who travel often. I am on the trial run, I am not sure if I want to purchase a membership I honestly just haven't seen the point when, as you stated earlier it's been more convenient for me to schedule through eccie. Originally Posted by dongeykong
After some nasty experiences, I only book with P411 Providers. Gina and her staff work hard to keep P411 members as safe as possible from the nastier elements of this activity.