As far as new photos every 6 months, umm... no. I update my photos every year, because it takes a lot to scout a new great photographer (if you look at my showcase/website, you know I pick only the best), wait for them to be in my area, or make a special trip to see them, have to buy new outfits to photograph in, and it costs a lot of money. I'm only willing to do that once a year. If that isn't enough for you, it'll be enough for the next gent.

I'm sure there are guys that are pissed we don't have new pictures every month. We all have to draw the line on how often we're willing to go through the hassle. Now, I can understand if her pics are 5+ years old and she doesn't really look anything like them anymore. And I think that is what you were complaining about, so I suppose we agree for the most part.
As far as some guys calling us "less than savory" names, that's just semantics. Some people are just too thin skinned. I'm confident in who I am and a random person's choice of words to describe my profession doesn't affect me at all. I still enjoy it the same, and I still get paid the same. Would I put up with it in person? I suppose that depends on the intent behind the chosen language.
How much does it affect you if you see a lady refer to her customer base as "customers," "clients," "johns," "tricks," "punters," etc.? Probably not all that much... but it does allow you some insight into her thoughts and attitude. That's about as much weight as I give it. And I assume most others are the same.