The perfect date

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This board continues to amaze me. OP asked for your perfect date and instead we get critiques of why someone else's perfect date is wrong.

Just tell us what YOU consider a perfect date and leave your boring opines at the curb.

This can be a fun thread if everyone will let it be.

No one ever threw up during my ATF and my dates....although a couple of mornings we rolled over and said in unison..."COFFEE".... Originally Posted by Toyz
Damn Haters....
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  • Toyz
  • 08-19-2014, 10:15 AM
What's wrong with this answer?. Originally Posted by samantha thom
Ralphey & I are friends. I don't want him thinking I am singling him out.

But to answer YOUR question, KL asked what is your perfect date, not what is NOT your perfect date.

Make sense?

I was interested in hearing more examples of what others do, not what turns them off.
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I got nothing.....

I'm just gonna go mope....
No one likes a drunk first date. That's not upscale.

Drunk tenth date...absolutely. I'm talking RW.
I had sober sex once and it was painfully quiet...

kidding!

Wine is always welcome in my apartment. A guest once brought a bottle of his favorite Malbec, now I keep my own reserve to share on his visits.

Does the snack plate really matter? I like to have a snack between petting. Just don't leave crumbs in my bed!
My favorite dates are the ones where I'm either swimming nude in their pool... or driving their expensive car back from our dinner date.

Happened a lot last year... not so much this year.
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My favorite dates are the ones where I'm either swimming nude in their pool... or driving their expensive car back from our dinner date.

Happened a lot last year... not so much this year. Originally Posted by Tracy Aine
Heh...

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What's wrong with this answer? Nobody likes their date drunk. There is this thing called 'moderation'. Don't drink too much! I love wine and I enjoy my 1 glass of chardonnay every night. Originally Posted by samantha thom

thank you Samantha! 1 glass even 2 is fine.. but no more than that..

I actually love kissing a girl who just drank red wine. I love that taste! just no drunk sex, have had to many bad experiences when women are drunk and want to fuk...one would think otherwise.. but I guess I was not the lucky one
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Ralphey & I are friends. I don't want him thinking I am singling him out.

But to answer YOUR question, KL asked what is your perfect date, not what is NOT your perfect date.

Make sense?

I was interested in hearing more examples of what others do, not what turns them off. Originally Posted by Toyz

no worries,, and a good point, the reason I brought up alcohol because most associate a 'good time' with being drunk or a 'good date' with 'having a few'. I am the opposite of that,

plus I sm bit negative this afternoon since I have to spend $500 on my car!! there goes my entertainment budget for the next 3-4 weeks
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  • Toyz
  • 08-19-2014, 06:11 PM
no worries,, and a good point, the reason I brought up alcohol because most associate a 'good time' with being drunk or a 'good date' with 'having a few'. I am the opposite of that,

plus I sm bit negative this afternoon since I have to spend $500 on my car!! there goes my entertainment budget for the next 3-4 weeks Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY
I hear ya...I was looking at $740 to fix my car a couple of months ago (which I loved)...pissed me off so much I went and bought a different car.

I RARELY drink before a session (although on a few bad ones I wished I could have drunk during it), that was just something my ATF and I enjoyed together.
My perfect date is a relaxed and unrushed time with a woman whom I enjoy as much for her intelligence and charm as I do for her beauty and (awesome) BCD skills. Catching up over a glass of wine beforehand (and yes, snacks are good!), a little pillow-talk in the afterglow. Usually, noon hours are the only times I can get away, but I've been fortunate enough to enjoy a couple of extended evening dates; those are definitely a rare but welcome luxury for me. But the key is being with someone whose company I can enjoy as much when her clothes are on as I do when they come off, and who acts as though she enjoys my company, too!