Rates from the guys side

Rule #1:He wants some hot monkey sex. Can't get it at home, cuz the SO is too tired to do anything other than a quick BJ and missionary, doggy on Friday night (YEAH!!) Originally Posted by Bob the Nailer

Whoa, whoa, whoa...you get BJs at home?

Whoa, whoa, whoa...you get BJs at home? Originally Posted by Say What

That's what I was thinking!

Y'all need to learn the same trick women use. Start doing the grocery shopping and request cash back and then the credit card statement just says the grocery store. Originally Posted by mydallas1

+1. Always take out cash and then the amount will seem normal and stash it away. Also, this time of year I'm like in 10 fantasy football leagues even though I'm in only 1.

This is why I'm glad I discovered this hobby while not in any form of relationship. No one, myself included, gives a damn what I do with my money.

Okay so I am greedy. I am attached and have a friend (by the way she does not cost me more). Still I like to venture out from time to time. This is solely leisure, wanting something different from time to time, and my value may change depending on circumstances. For example, I have been wanting to see one provider since 2013 (forgive me for putting you in this post baby girl....you know who you are) when she first sent me an IM to come kick it with her over at a XTC in Fort Worth. I could not get there for family and personal reasons (scheduling as she moved over to a few Dallas clubs and my being laid off) and now that I have the opportunity, her donation rate has raised (doubled almost). Now I am kicking myself for not biting the bullet then but I did not want to take the chance of not covering something for those minutes of selfishness.
Can I afford the luxury, yes but I am principled. I believe in certain things so cost so much and it is hard for me to move from that point....not impossible but rather hard. I also believe in donating for quality. To sum it up, I am squarely in between getting the best value and good quality service. It is a fine line but i stay true to it. As for my entertainer/provider of my dreams, I guess I will have to settle for getting drunk with her at the club (when ever I get the opportunity and time)

There's obviously a market for everything. Chubby chix raising their rates, whales asking $350, older hot chix down to a buck eighty, granny blow jobs for $65 and granny sex monkeys for $400, crazy eyed youngsters for $220 to $500...in this game the old truism about getting what you pay for is bullshit. You can snag a deal for under two and get screwed for twice that.

Arguing about rates and calling out fuckers for their opinions on rates is truly perpetual motion drama. You wanna pay 4 bones to fuck a skinny wrinkly assed leather hided granny, fucking do it. You wanna do it for less, tough shit, that's the rate. If you think chubby and psycho is cool, pay the rate, don't argue, don't bitch. Personally the whole GPS thing is beyond me, because pussy is pussy, so if you like the chassis, be classy and don't whine. You think these bitches holler about cheapskates, stick your thumb in your wife's ass next weekend and see what that nets you.

Be glad to pay the rate for them as will have your ass. Set your expense constraints and get laid, but don't talk so damn much about it, just do it. At any price, money talks and talk walks. If your dick wants it bad enough, you'll find a way.

Whoa, whoa, whoa...you get BJs at home? Originally Posted by Say What

Actually, I could, but it was short and didn't help that much. Now that we don't have sex at all I'm actually happier

Grocery store was the end of my second marriage. Went to pick up some roles and didn't make it home for the rest of the weekend. She wasn't very understanding when it happened a lot.
Two divorces and you find out what is expensive. This is nothing.

I bet those were damn good rolls OLDLRRP,LOL! They better have been. Originally Posted by Ray007

LOL. Yes, very nice. You know it is at the end when she said, "you could have at least called". No, you have caller ID.

, stick your thumb in your wife's ass next weekend and see what that nets you.

Be glad to pay the rate for them as will have your ass. Set your expense Originally Posted by phildo

Know how to keep the wife screaming for an hour after sex? Get up and wipe yourself off on the drapes.

Hobbying is no different than racing horses ( as I did), cars, dogs; than showing dog breeds; than buying fine wines ( I still do);than most feel are luxury. I could mention drugs and other evil things. Quit the bitching. You can afford what you can afford. Unless of course you want what I can.

Any dude making $4 5K a year with those bills trying to hobby is a piece of shit.

Try putting some money in your kids college fund and Jack off to free porn.

This isn't a hobby for the poor, and a family of 4 living on $45K is poor.

Any dude making $4 5K a year with those bills trying to hobby is a piece of shit.

Try putting some money in your kids college fund and Jack off to free porn.

This isn't a hobby for the poor, and a family of 4 living on $45K is poor. Originally Posted by Boltfan

Finally a word of wisdom. + 1000!

And I am seriously considering cutting out some expenses for those yoga pants because, dammit, they were REALLY cute!!

I would like to see you in them ..thn

It's a weird dynamic in a way. Guys with great disposable income, you'd think would have less trouble getting women, particularly the kind that are attracted to guys with money. But the hobby is a great tool, because it is the magic bullet for UGLY guys who make a shitload of money.

Just a random thought I had.

Another thought I have is that, regardless of financial standing, we all have similar needs and wants. Guys who make less shouldn't be made to feel like shit because they don't want to make it rain on a provider. This is why rates are getting out of control anyway. Part of the reason is that these well off fucks are telling ladies to raise their rates to keep joe average from pursuing her. They overtip, putting unrealistic perceptions of disposal incomes guys have. It's BS. Let's just call it what it is.

If this isn't the case, then someone explain why newbie providers come in the game charging 2.5 or 3 bills, sometimes for half a freaking. Others even more. Many of them don't even have reviews. Non-MSOG? CBJ? I don't give a damn how cute you are, you can go to hell with those rates.

It's not that I can't afford it. I can. It's just principle. You're 'performing' unskilled 'labor' that 99% that ALL women can do. What's so special about YOU?

If you do start your rates at 2.50, you better be FUCKING HOT! I mean, mouth-watering, dick hard just looking at your pictures HOT! Stop myself from jacking off because I want to build up a good load hot! Services must be top of the line. I should leave your incall thinking, 'Damn, when can I see her again?'

Of course, some guys will come on here and say I'm full of shit, in all probability because what I say applies to them. If the shoe fits.... Answer me this, rich boys. If your salary was reduced to say, $30,000 tomorrow, would you stop hobbying? If the answer is no, shut up and sit down.

Now, the reason ladies SHOULD charge what they do is because it takes a lot of heart and effort to put up with fat, ugly guys with 2 inch dicks that barely get hard, they want to act like the ladies are supposed to do every trick in the book. Not every woman CAN do this, and I applaud you ladies that can. Keep up the good work, because life would suck ass without providers.

Any dude making $4 5K a year with those bills trying to hobby is a piece of shit.

Try putting some money in your kids college fund and Jack off to free porn.

This isn't a hobby for the poor, and a family of 4 living on $45K is poor. Originally Posted by Boltfan

Yep yep!! That's what I was making in my entry level job out of college yearrrrssss agooooooo!!!!! For one person, it's ok…for a family of 4??? That's poor!!