WE HAVE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS

Most of the ladies that I have known with NBA policies have and do make exceptions. I can think of 3 or 4 that would NEVER make and exception and I know 1 or 2 who made exceptions only because the gent passed screening and she did not know of race until the gent showed up.

As far as hearing from the ladies on this.... most will see no advantage in answering.

The things I heard that helped were basically using "proper" language and grammar as well as being respectful of the lady and her preferences/wishes/ menu etc.

I'm sorry to hear this. I have numerous clients that have had that issue here in Austin as well which is why I started a thread for AA friendly providers in the Austin co-ed.
I am also AA friendly and visit Killeen regularly...

Wow i leave yall alone for a hot minute and it just goes cRaZy smh' Dezire is back to save the world.

I don't have a NBA policy but you would need eccie references

It does feel bad as an AA who treats ladies respectfully to be labeled without the provider even knowing me. I have seen recently that a lot of providers who state a NBA policy are adding an age to it such as no AA under age 40. Some say NBA totally. Honestly I love my eccie ladies here in our area who have shown me nothing but love anyway, they know how to make you feel special regardless of your race.