Do I owe her money?

Two sides to every story, but based on yours....I really don't think you did anything wrong. As a matter of fact, after all of that waiting....and you still gave her the $50 for the 15 minutes....I think you were very generous. Originally Posted by Richardtx

^What he said.

Seems to me there was a whole lot of rigmarole here. Surprised she even mentioned the wee bit of extra time after all that. Sounds like you were more than fair... and incredibly tolerant.

I'm a little bit confused. Why even contacting the provider the following day after you got what you want?

so, pls let us know if this is correct; [just picking a time out of the hat for illustration purposes].

makeup appt was to start at 1:00 pm
she shows up at 1:40pm
get to the room with her soon after.
put fee on the table [you counted at least three times to make sure the amount was correct.]
she's ready around 1:45 pm

now here is where it's not clear.
you end session and you've gone over by 15 minutes.
meaning
a) 2:15pm = 1pm start time + 1 hr + 15 mins
or b) 3:00pm = 1:45pm start time + 1 hr + 15 mins

if a) in my book, you over paid and she was pinching pennies instead of pinching penises.
if b) in my book, you paid for 1 hr and tipped her for less than 1/4 hrs time. so, you might be 25 short.

in either case, sounds like she really didnt care about your time or you. just your money.

i concur - let us know who she is so we know about her alleged lack of time keeping skills.
that way, guys can avoid her or go visit her, their choice.

Tell greedy bitch to get over herself. You owe her nothing else.

Vote NO, on The Scatterbrain Tax!

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Your first attempt to see her was not a NC/NS. You didn't make the drive to her incall, try to contact her there and get no response from her and leave without seeing her.

If you are sincere about not caring to see her again, name her. You have nothing to lose and us guys will have plenty to gain from this info.

And...it would be nice to hear her side of the story.

You owe her nothing.

As has been said there are two sides to every story but if it's as you described then you owe her nothing. You chose to tip her and you didn't have to do that much ! I have been asked to wait before and if it's reasonable ( like 10 or 15 mins ) I will wait. In my mind the session doesn't start until WE start so makeup and talking until SHE is comfortable is off the clock.

I think that was incredibly rude on her part and she was lucky to even get a tip. I think everyone here would like to know who the provider was.

No because you are both a gentleman and a scolar. Always wanted to say that. *scratches said phrase off his phrase bucket list*

"let me know and I'll bring it right over. She declines to tell me an amount, and says I can give her what I think is right the next time we see each other"

Done deal. You offered. She declined. In business, you don't beg people to take your money.

Sounds very similar to a session I had a couple of years ago with a very well known provider. I wonder if it's the same person.

Plain and simple. Fuck no

Two sides to every story, but based on yours....I really don't think you did anything wrong. As a matter of fact, after all of that waiting....and you still gave her the $50 for the 15 minutes....I think you were very generous. Originally Posted by Richardtx

I agree - and if I were you I would just keep things peaceful but never see her again.

I think you are a gentleman. I appreciate that. But the hobby is not the Talmud, where right and wrong is endlessly debated. Don't waster your life force on it.