A thought on NCNS

My point being is exactly that your expectations should be kind of low. ESPECIALLY when calling BP girls. I know from my own experience I was thrown into this hobby without much preparation, It just amazes me that guys expect 4 star service in an industry that can attract some unsavory characters. Its almost like filing a customer grievance because your dope dealer shorted you. Just choose another supplier rather than whine about it.

As far as myself needing to go back into retirement I think that is something for myself and my clients to discuss not anyone else.

So guys, always book t least 2-3 appointments for the exact same time.

This will ensure that at least one of them is able to screw her head on tight enough to make it.

If all 3 show up, either organize a triples session or send two away stating, "You guys either have drug or pimp problems and are simply just not reliable. Move along"

My point being is exactly that your expectations should be kind of low. Originally Posted by Lily Stargazer

I don't think I've ever seen a hooker say that anyone who comes to see her should have low expectations...

First time for everything I guess...

This ThreAD isnt working well. You should post another one. Originally Posted by Sonya

Honestly, it reads more like a troll than a threAD.

I don't think I've ever seen a hooker say that anyone who comes to see her should have low expectations...

First time for everything I guess... Originally Posted by Wakeup

LOL!! I sure as hell wouldnt want anyone to have low expectations before they see me! This all started because I saw a thread about a BP girl that NCNS. I wouldnt even bother getting mad about it, you have no clue what your dealing with on BP. If its a VP who is actually trying to create a professional reputation then a complaint would be helpful. complaining about a BP girl who didnt show is pointless.

I also know from first hand experience that some girls are posted by a pimp, or agency and you could be scheduling with their manager not even them. Manager calls and says you have a appt here and they dont show for whatever reason, and may not even have the number to call and re arrange something.

For some this IS a profession, for others its not. I do agree that at least a text saying something came up is necessary. I would personally never NCNS someone but, I am also in it to win it.

My point being is exactly that your expectations should be kind of low. ESPECIALLY when calling BP girls. I know from my own experience I was thrown into this hobby without much preparation, It just amazes me that guys expect 4 star service in an industry that can attract some unsavory characters. Its almost like filing a customer grievance because your dope dealer shorted you. Just choose another supplier rather than whine about it.

As far as myself needing to go back into retirement I think that is something for myself and my clients to discuss not anyone else. Originally Posted by Lily Stargazer

Well, you successfully lowered our expectations of you.

This board is about sharing information. If a guy gets treated like shit by a provider, him sharing his experience can help others avoid the girl.

Furthermore I dont want to piss anyone off but, It has always kind of irked me how providers are held up to a certain level of professionalism. While some fit the bill and ARE professional and some are super classy, I dont understand how people can get their feathers so ruffled that I could EVEN mention that a good number of ladies who are attracted to this lifestyle are exactly the type you can EXPECT some flakiness out of.

I am a together enough girl that I chose to leave a corporate job for this because I like it, the people, the perks, the sex all of it. some girls are in this "hobby" for completely other reasons and quite possibly because they are not so employable or reliable or educated. (I said some, not all. I dont want this to turn into a lynching) So youve got a girl who may be doing this to support a habit, make some quick cash, maybe is forced or "managed" and you are expecting the same service and professionalism you get from your insurance rep or Dr. ?

I guess I am trying to say that while some of us have a professional attitude this really isnt a profession. Where do the expectations come from?

Well, you successfully lowered our expectations of you.

This board is about sharing information. If a guy gets treated like shit by a provider, him sharing his experience can help others avoid the girl. Originally Posted by BFCjosh

I didnt realize your opinions represented the opinions of everyone on ECCIE BFCJosh, I have been here since ASPD I think I am entitled to share my views as well.

Thats great that everyone's expectations of me have been lowered, now can be pleasantly surprised when they meet me.

Totally unrelated but Its in bright pink. Marilyn Monroe never said that quote.js

lol / no pay , no play that is my take on the situation

I have seen so many providers who get so mad about a client not bringing the donation. It amazes me. I am sure I have forgotten to bring my wallet sometimes. You gals have to take into account that you are expecting money from men who contacted you online and sometimes from not such a trusted source, furthermore some (not all) of these guys have wife problems and other issues not to mention bills and whatever else may of led them to the world of hobbying. Just chalk it up to the sport and move along.

This is my take on it at least. Originally Posted by Stanfeld

lol / no pay , no play that is my take on the situation Originally Posted by abeautifulsite

I thought you were retiring. What happens then?
Or are you going from wanton fuckery straight to a nunnery?

I am retiring after the end of the year/ At the end of January to be specific. And no nunnery just been working on other projects and almost have them completed / Thanks for asking

Furthermore I dont want to piss anyone off but, It has always kind of irked me how providers are held up to a certain level of professionalism. Originally Posted by Lily Stargazer

If you are getting 200 300 400 or more per hour then what should we expect . NCNS sucks on both sides and no doubt it hurts providers alot more. That said guys should have a certain expectations based on the fact we are paying

I guess I am trying to say that while some of us have a professional attitude this really isnt a profession. Where do the expectations come from?
Originally Posted by Lily Stargazer

Lily;
I respect what you are saying and even agree somewhat. BUT basic communication is, and should always be, a requirement on "Both" sides....then there would never be a NC/NS. (Unless things get unreasonable, or flaky) at least then both sides can go their own way and see someone else. JMHO
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Furthermore I dont want to piss anyone off but, It has always kind of irked me how providers are held up to a certain level of professionalism. Originally Posted by Lily Stargazer