Why dont more providers

I'd pay extra to skip the dance, frankly. Maybe I'm just showing my age. But a good long back rub; or a nice sandwich, some fresh chips, and a glass of ice water? Hell yeah!! Originally Posted by TexTushHog

:lol... Yes, when I get to your incall I want some dfk, followed by you giving me the remote. Then you go into the kitchen and make me some food. Bring it out while I enjoy it, watching TV, and you going down on me... Perfect!

Your best bet is just to ask a provider before setting the appointment if she will include it at the beginning, but, to be honest, there are multiple providers, even ones that were former dancers, who you really do not want them to give you a lap dance before the session or any time actually, as many will just go through the motions. So, depending on the type of strip tease/lap dance your want, if that is really important to you to start you session, let a provider know what exactly you want, and you can because it is your money. If she can do it without looking and feeling awkward and she is comfortable with your request, there should be no problem, the worse thing she can do is say no and you move on.

As others have said, you can finish, using your word, at the SC, but if IOP is important to you, when your journey that starts with lap dance and ends with you finishing, and that is the ultimate goal, there is a 0% chance of you receiving any IOP from the dancer due to the environment. You may or may not get much more IOP from a provider, but the chances are better considering that environment.

:lol... Yes, when I get to your incall I want some dfk, followed by you giving me the remote. Then you go into the kitchen and make me some food. Bring it out while I enjoy it, watching TV, and you going down on me... Perfect! Originally Posted by FunInDFW

Well damn.. you should have just said so! I am a IOS specialist (Illusion of Sandwich)

A little teasing goes a long way, I say.

I respect your feelings but if I want to see a woman strip...I'll go to a strip club. I gave up strip clubs for providers because I got tired of looking...and wanted to start touching/playing!

I respect your feelings but if I want to see a woman strip...I'll go to a strip club. I gave up strip clubs for providers because I got tired of looking...and wanted to start touching/playing! Originally Posted by planojim

Well, I'm inclined to think that shortly thereafter 'something' could possibly happen.

I dunno. Maybe I'm wrong here.

I respect your feelings but if I want to see a woman strip...I'll go to a strip club. I gave up strip clubs for providers because I got tired of looking...and wanted to start touching/playing! Originally Posted by planojim

How long has it been since you have been to a strip club? Not that it does not go on currently, but the days of just watching as the dancer does her dance are long gone. Yesteryear, the term was table dancing, look but no touch, today it is lap dancing, lots of mutual touching. But, sticking with the OP's subject of this thread, having a provider who is good at the strip tease lap dance at the beginning of the session and near the end of the session, you are both naked and on a bed, doing MPCFS, something you cannot do at a strip club!

But it's a creative ice breaker - more vertically intriguing while allowing each other to familiarize with their bodies ...then again if talking awkwardly works , great. I'd rather the prior if I'm passing time to.develop comfort. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

While true i try to get to know the provider by chatting with them here when we can and talk about what we are both into and not into so that by the time we do meet it isnt the nervous chatter and stuttering question experiance for me. Plus i prefer that the provider feel as comfortable as possible, kind of role reversal that they feel that they are the client and that they are here to have a good time.

Thats my 2 cents.

Work strip teases or lap dances into sessions? Maybe a lot will do it and I just need to request it.
Something about it so sensual and sexy and gets the motor going. Originally Posted by mydallas1

Lexy Laye will on her own pole and more.

Almost anything is available to those that ask....

Post some taint?

Not all full-time providers have years of experience with the art of exotic and erotic dance,many none at all.

You may also try looking for providers with striptease listed in reviews.


Also, you may need to request it, especially if on menu or mentions of exotic dancing in their show cases. Many ladies even have portable poles. I myself have Private dance affairs...VIP room in my incall and wood floors...back in the days more gents would partake in these types of sessions no different than massages with L1 or L2. Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Very well said Eva!

On a side note - I will be installing a pole in my incall. I need more things to slide up and down on!

Very well said Eva!

On a side note - I will be installing a pole in my incall. I need more things to slide up and down on! Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

I just need to keep mine up, lol more gents should request it for it to stay. ... BSB has seen I get serious on that pole....keeping it up often loosens the holes for no reason ... so yea, I'd definitely request so more often as a gent...you never know!


Thanks Wifey ❤

Very well said Eva!

On a side note - I will be installing a pole in my incall. I need more things to slide up and down on! Originally Posted by BrownSugarBaby

Will the pole be larger than 1.3"?

Will the pole be larger than 1.3"? Originally Posted by pyramider

I must climb it - let us hope so!