A question for providers...

I love Dinner Dates!! And I agree with Honey Rose! I think most providers including myself offer a package deal so to speak that involves a dinner date.

Happy Hunting

and SNL though we have not met I do not think you come off a wayward 12 year old Originally Posted by Bridgette Ann

Thanks love...but oh yes..we did meet in January at the Anatole...silly girl. But that was 9 months ago (January 14) and in hobby/providing time that's like 2 or 3 years...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=971631

Oh Duh and due pardons! I believe I have lost my mind tonight

Unless I've seen you many times and had an increasing blast everytime...time=money.

This sort of thing is why I offer my "clock free" option. We can have a nice dinner, cocktails, even catch a show if that is what your heart desires... its flexible anywhere from 4ish to 6ish hours. Perfect for a real "date" experience.

I am busy every single day now. Every. Day. If I'm not working on something its bc I am sleeping. I would love to go out and enjoy myself but the fact is I would feel bad for doing it bc I have a ton of other things I should be doing. If I'm earning while I go out, the guilt is gone.

This is why I love dinner dates the most. The down side is I usually can't even go on those anymore bc of my work schedule. Lol. Darn the luck.

I get The point of what SNL is getting at.

He actually wants a date, date with the provider, and that would be nice to have on occasion.

And I think he is asking if she normally charges $200 per hour, if he wanted four hours total, including non-BCD Time of just eating and or talking, is she going to charge the full $200 per hour x four hours = $800?

I think that is something that one should negotiate! But have to remember, we are paying for her time no matter what is going on.

Understandably, A woman has to eat, on occasion, and if a guy asks her out for totally just a lunch or dinner meeting, and nothing else, maybe she wouldn't charge for that???

I totally would love to meet a provider who would love to actually go on a "date" and not charge $200 per hour! Maybe I'm cheap, but I wouldn't mind paying for an hour of "service" and the other couple hours is the actual "date."

If I were a woman, and a provider, and if it was a slow evening and someone offered to take me out to dinner, have sort of a date and pay me an hour of my regular fee, I would go for it! I would see it as consumer relations and building a client base to get a return customer! A free meal, some company with someone who maybe would actually like to have a dialogue with you that doesn't involve the phrase, "oh I want go deep in your pussy," and you'd get a couple hundred dollars?! Yes, please!

YM - I respect that and like I said...time is money. Miss talking to you. Hope you are well. xo

Grace - Thank you for pointing out the "clock free" option. That definitely is a great approach...and good to know that is an option with you *smile*

THN - I know how busy you are with RW...and would without a doubt make it worth the time if interested..xo

Thank ladies...appreciate your feedback..

I get The point of what SNL is getting at.

He actually wants a date, date with the provider, and that would be nice to have on occasion.

And I think he is asking if she normally charges $200 per hour, if he wanted four hours total, including non-BCD Time of just eating and or talking, is she going to charge the full $200 per hour x four hours = $800?

I think that is something that one should negotiate! But have to remember, we are paying for her time no matter what is going on.

Understandably, A woman has to eat, on occasion, and if a guy asks her out for totally just a lunch or dinner meeting, and nothing else, maybe she wouldn't charge for that???

I totally would love to meet a provider who would love to actually go on a "date" and not charge $200 per hour! Maybe I'm cheap, but I wouldn't mind paying for an hour of "service" and the other couple hours is the actual "date."

If I were a woman, and a provider, and if it was a slow evening and someone offered to take me out to dinner, have sort of a date and pay me an hour of my regular fee, I would go for it! I would see it as consumer relations and building a client base to get a return customer! A free meal, some company with someone who maybe would actually like to have a dialogue with you that doesn't involve the phrase, "oh I want go deep in your pussy," and you'd get a couple hundred dollars?! Yes, please! Originally Posted by TallDallasGuy

TDG - Thank you sir for expanding. And yes, you do get it. And just for clarification and I am sure you agree with me.

I was in no way referring to anything "free". It's our "hobby" and the ladies "profession" and hence the two worlds have to come to common ground especially when brining up the potential of a "date" or "fake date" per se.

To YM's point...maybe it's just something that happens after you see a provider on more than one occasion and the provider take a little liking to the hobbyist and is ok with an occasional OTC lunch/dinner and then the clock starts later...

Here is a novel idea, how about just paying the lady's rate? This sounds like someone is trying to tie up a lady's time.

^^^Yup you got that right pal..because I don't have any money and I need to bargain hunt that's my m.o.

But hey ...here's yet an even better novel idea.

This will be a great first step for you and believe me you will wake up tomorrow feeling much better. It's going to take you some self reflection...but here it goes..

Light a candle and look in the mirror and just repeat this...

"I'm a troll..and a loser who has 26,000 posts and 5 reviews that are ancient history. If it weren't for the very few connected dendrites I would be a Cro-Magnon..I can change...I want to change...and I will stop embarrassing the male gender"..

You can go ahead and google what Dendrites and Cro-Magnon are as I am positive you will have to do so.

Your welcome...troll.

You judging a poster by reviews is funny. Really it is ... You are just looking for OTC. Pay the ladies for their time, time is a limited commodity. You are simply trying to not pay, or minimize, paying the ladies for their time.

So look in the mirror and you will see you're are a cheap bastard that is playing the "wolf in sheep's clothing game." You just need to admit the fact ... its okay to admit it.

LOL.....you of all people calling me cheap. Now THAT is hilarious. It's even more pathetic than your 26,000 worthless posts to which half are asking girls for taint pictures...Now THAT is cheap right there....Don't you have enough taint pictures you can sticky your keyboard with??

Troll you really are clueless....awww if only you knew.

Skippy, you started the thread on being cheap, that is what I know.

Goddamn....you really are that fucking stupid aren't you? I thought some of the other tards took the prize for dumb but boy you really take the cake..

I take my regulars to lunch or dinner on a regular basis to thank them for what they do for me. Off the clock. Just being nice to the ladies.