Ladies, What Do You Hate?

I have had 3 visits in the last month where guys have done this crap to me (too rough, overly aggressive, disrespectful). I don't know why they call me in the first place. I am not that girl. No where in any of my ads, reviews or website does it say that I am PSE and/or a submissive slave they can use and abuse as they choose.

There is a reason why I put "GFE" on all of my advertisements. I desire and need encounters that are Fun, passionate and like a real date.

I do NOT want, have or welcome any visits where someone is going to use and abuse me. Call some other girl for that who is into that kind of thing. That is NOT what I offer.

I offer a true, genuine GFE encounter where we are both Equal, both have a super Fun time and both experiencing tons of Pleasure. This is where I am most Happy and Satisfied. Originally Posted by Urban Dahlia

Can I Get An AMEN!!!

Hoo kant speil ? I resemble dat remarc Emie..

Hoo kant speil ? I resemble dat remarc Emie.. Originally Posted by Mrbelvedere

Lol!!

Guys that PM, call, email etc. incessantly,and never book. What do you want? Do you need a friend? There is one that is doing it to lots of us ladies right now. I wish I had his time! It's a pain to stop what you are doing to check a message that is not business related. Oh my gosh,

I also don't like the continuous contact after we have set an appointment. There is no need for 30 more emails. I'll see you at our appointment, and we can talk then. It shows inconsideration for my time. When guys do this, it feels like they are either a. just using your time, and have no intention of showing to the appointment since they have already had so much of your attention or b. mentally unstable. The exception to this is a regular client or someone I have met and enjoyed. I enjoy getting occasional PMs, texts etc. checking in once in awhile. If we have not met, it just sketches me out. See a. and b. above. Having had a stalker, this is very uncomfortable.

Guys that PM, call, email etc. incessantly,and never book. What do you want? Do you need a friend? There is one that is doing it to lots of us ladies right now. I wish I had his time! It's a pain to stop what you are doing to check a message that is not business related. Oh my gosh,

I also don't like the continuous contact after we have set an appointment. There is no need for 30 more emails. I'll see you at our appointment, and we can talk then. It shows inconsideration for my time. When guys do this, it feels like they are either a. just using your time, and have no intention of showing to the appointment since they have already had so much of your attention or b. mentally unstable. The exception to this is a regular client or someone I have met and enjoyed. I enjoy getting occasional PMs, texts etc. checking in once in awhile. If we have not met, it just sketches me out. See a. and b. above. Having had a stalker, this is very uncomfortable. Originally Posted by Holly Love

nah, if you don't like it, it's not the guys fault for contacting you X times, it's yours.
Tell him what you want, don't assume he knows.
Communication, remember, all you have to do is tell him, See you at set time.. and that's it.

nah, if you don't like it, it's not the guys fault for contacting you X times, it's yours.
Tell him what you want, don't assume he knows.
Communication, remember, all you have to do is tell him, See you at set time.. and that's it. Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

Oh bullshit, there is a thing called consideration, you shouldn't have to be told to stop being inconsiderate, unless you had no parents, was raised by baboons or are Brazilian then its not your fault and your parents should be slapped.

And here I thought some ladies would come on here and say that they hate getting appointment requests from me.

I'm shocked.

And here I thought some ladies would come on here and say that they hate getting appointment requests from me.

I'm shocked. Originally Posted by jan-w

Some things are just assumed.

Oh bullshit, there is a thing called consideration, you shouldn't have to be told to stop being inconsiderate, unless you had no parents, was raised by baboons or are Brazilian then its not your fault and your parents should be slapped. Originally Posted by dirty dog

double bullshit
like you, assume the guy is retarded, he doesnt know better

so instead of moaning and whining about a retard being retarded, tell him what you want and if he can't abide by what you tell him in a email/pm/text, then don't see him

I hear about "screening" constantly, seems this is a great way to do some screening

stop blaming others for your problems

nah, if you don't like it, it's not the guys fault for contacting you X times, it's yours.
Tell him what you want, don't assume he knows.
Communication, remember, all you have to do is tell him, See you at set time.. and that's it. Originally Posted by bigcockpussylicker

You're right. Sometimes I guess I am too nice, and don't want to hurt feelings, then I get so frustrated, I probably do hurt feelings. I need to be more direct and assertive. Thanks for pointing that out. LOL

You're right. Sometimes I guess I am too nice, and don't want to hurt feelings, then I get so frustrated, I probably do hurt feelings. I need to be more direct and assertive. Thanks for pointing that out. LOL Originally Posted by Holly Love

Sure
The real problem is the false-consensus effect or false-consensus bias whereby a person tends to overestimate the extent to which their beliefs or opinions are typical of those of others.

I know this and yet, I still have problems because I expect others to be like me.and they simply aren't
so I've found the remedy is to dumb things down, make it clear and simple and don't assume they understand any detail.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbr...eople-wont-do/

Also, people don't care about your problems, cept they are glad you have them.

Guys that PM, call, email etc. incessantly,and never book. What do you want? Do you need a friend? There is one that is doing it to lots of us ladies right now. I wish I had his time! It's a pain to stop what you are doing to check a message that is not business related. Oh my gosh,

I also don't like the continuous contact after we have set an appointment. There is no need for 30 more emails. I'll see you at our appointment, and we can talk then. It shows inconsideration for my time. When guys do this, it feels like they are either a. just using your time, and have no intention of showing to the appointment since they have already had so much of your attention or b. mentally unstable. The exception to this is a regular client or someone I have met and enjoyed. I enjoy getting occasional PMs, texts etc. checking in once in awhile. If we have not met, it just sketches me out. See a. and b. above. Having had a stalker, this is very uncomfortable. Originally Posted by Holly Love

Have to say that it is taking a lot of well power to not text, email, pm, tweet or call you, just to ask of whom you might be referring too...

Then again, I already have a pretty good idea of whom you are referring too...