Great point...I'm a lingerie fanatic, and have several custom made outfits from entertaining which I'll sport. So, I guess I learned from the old school that one must look pristine, and lacey in lingerie . I would hope if erotic attire is not desirable, my Lover will inform me beforehand so I may open the door in jeans and a T. Originally Posted by Eva DamitaThanks Eva you just made my head explode.