cristinexo. If you agree to an incall it is your responsibility to provide the room at the appointed time. Whether or not it was beyond your control it was your responsibilty. You don't seem to understand this. You wasted a half hour of this guy's time plus travel time. There were options. You could have changed to outcall and discounted the price of the room. You could avoid having drunken parties in rooms you use for business. You could have cancelled and offered the guy a discount or extra time for his time you wasted. There were and still are ways to turn lemons into lemonade. Many guys who read these forums do so to avoid making appointments with ladies with poor tcb skills such as you. Why take a chance on a lady who ncns someone when there are so many choices who don't. How you run your business is up to you but I believe it likely this thread has cost you business. Tennisbum. Sorry for your pain. Thanks for sharing. Originally Posted by Houston.EpicureanI blame the maid for not cleaning faster. come on, lighten up.. if I was always responsible I'd probably have a job.
HE ... hits on a little mentioned fact ....I could have made up a ridiculous excuse similar to what most providers would do. I foolishly thought someone would see even the tiniest bit of humor in the situation as I did.
For the hobbyist ... setting up an appointment and getting to the appointment ... and returning from the appointment ... can be an extra 2 hours minimum and sometimes 3 ... out of the hobbyist's day (work day most likely) .. so for the hobbyist the meeting takes 3 to 4 hours of time, plus any expense for getting there and back (fuel, tolls, etc.) ....
we all have "emergencies" and unexpected, uncontrolled conflicts ....
.. a messy room at 10 a.m. from a drunken party "the night before" is not one.
It is laziness, and avoidable. Originally Posted by LexusLover
What's the old saying "Time is money"? As you don't respect peoples time, the next time some guy stiffs you on the fee, you can count on several of us saying "What, you don't think that's funny? You take this shit to seriously".And I I'm still struggling to make a solid contact... Just give me a "no", but stringing along, gosh, I might as well try with RW coworkers... Heck, I've banged two faster than trying to confirm with some of the ladies here...
You dredging up an old thread that shows your poor TCB skills and hurting your business? Now that's funny. Originally Posted by citizen44