Anal/ Age

Don't think its an age thing. My first anal experience was in the 70s. Have also enjoyed strap on and toy play.

ahhh I see what you mean, that more women are into it now, so more guys would be willing to give it to her.

I have steered away from it because I am not into any kind of pain. It is the next thing on my list. The water sports was a great turn on so on to the next goal.

Over 45 and love giving dato and anal sex with the someone who enjoys it, but not a deal breaker if she's not into it.

I have enjoyed it for a long time. Maybe I am eccentric but I have an open mind.

I'm 56 and when I lost my cherry at 13 it was with a female who wanted anal so very clumsily I obliged her and lasted about 2 seconds. We "dated" for several years and during that time we experimented with about every kind of sexy a couple can experience. The one thing we would always do at least once when we got together was anal, she loved it and was a natural at it from the jump. I still enjoy it a helluva lot WHEN I can find a lady that has it on her menu which is rare.

I was in my late 20's when it was first offered to me. Unfortunately, I was too much of a "nice guy" to participate, and my thoughts centered on the hygiene issue. It probably would have been the time of my life had I followed through. Now in my 60's, I finally made the plunge about 15 yrs ago after finding a willing provider. Never found a civi who was into it after the 1st gal that offered or who would admit to it.

Definitely not an age thing. I am over 60 and can't get enough DATO. Anal sex far from a deal breaker, but if the girl is into it, count me in.

Definitely not an age thing. I am over 60 and can't get enough DATO. Anal sex far from a deal breaker, but if the girl is into it, count me in. Originally Posted by Gbfsl

What he said!

Iam 50 and for about the last 10 years I have met occasionally with a lady friend that is 15 years my senior that has requested anal since the beginning. When she emails to go to dinner , I know what she wants.
Also, I like doing it with a provider but only if there is no upcharge; not because of the $$ but if she charges more then she is usually doing it because of the money , not because she really enjoys it.

I'm 45 and recently had my first DATO experience and I'm hooked!
I do believe that the prevalence of it in porn has normalized anal play for the entire population. As a younger guy I would have never done it but thank you porn

I find the opposite. Older men are less inhibited because they have been there and done that, and could give two fucks about what society thinks about what they prefer behind closed doors. Pardon my french...

After reading this thread I am inclined to make this my next goal. I have always thought that I would cause the lady pain and I steer away from pain in sex.

older guy here , love anal sex ..but love anal sex with younger girls 18-30 age range not really into anal with ladies my age

Like SaddleT I too was initiated at an early age by an "older" lady. had a 5 year behind the doors relationship, and lernt most of what I now know from har. will be eternally grateful. anal was one of those things including DATO etc. Am almost 70, and still enjoy it as much with someone who is comfortable with it.