Hard and in control or Soft and rymthic

OK Let me Rephrase the question lol. You had a great looking well endowed client. You only could have sex one way with him. Your mood was neutral at the time. The donation was not at question. The setting was ok for you.
WHAT TYPE WOULD YOU PICK????

Damn you women are hard to get a single answer out of lol(Probably after all these years why I still don't understand you. lol )

Guys just put a woman in the same scenario for your reply

I like it both.But I am kind of a hopeless romantic so slow with passionate kisses is the best for me.

Damn you women are hard to get a single answer out of lol(Probably after all these years why I still don't understand you. lol ) Originally Posted by burkalini

Well, what do you expect? They're women and therefore not fully comprehensible to the less complex, more linear-thinking male. But even I, as a member of the simpler gender, split about 50-50 between hard and soft. I always start soft on a first meeting, though, until I'm sure my version of "hard" is a turn-on for her.

Lol! Is this why we are having a hard time in this country? We can't make up our minds? At least Anita picked a favorite, albeit with a qualifier. I guess I can assume that no one will pick just one. I guess sex is like a pack of life savers. Too many flavors to pick just one

Oh MY!

This sounds about right for me! When in doubt, choose the gentler options for moi. I prefer making love to eff-wording. Originally Posted by China Doll

Lol! Is this why we are having a hard time in this country? We can't make up our minds? At least Anita picked a favorite, albeit with a qualifier. I guess I can assume that no one will pick just one. I guess sex is like a pack of life savers. Too many flavors to pick just one Originally Posted by burkalini

Was my answer not good enough?

Was my answer not good enough? Originally Posted by China Doll

China yours was fine. At least you picked a favorite. Puts you in the minority. lol

What we have here ... is a failure to communicate!
Classic Venus - Mars thing going on here.
For me, I like Tiffany's answer!

I like it however he likes it. I think it's important to be versatile and open-minded. I enjoy sex whichever way I get it-I'm lucky, you can just blow on my pussy and I'll orgasmLOL! Originally Posted by Sweet Heather

LOL

I think of it as the woman's body is a beautiful instrument, a violin...every song is different - but usually I will start slowly and then build up the rhythm to a hard, spasmic crescendo! Originally Posted by BadWolf

+1

I GIVE UP!!!!!!!! LOL

I GIVE UP!!!!!!!! LOL Originally Posted by burkalini

The best time to ask, as she is leading you the bedroom. She will tell you what she is in the mood for. I never knew a woman not to just before it is to happen. From "soft and loving" to "please leave no marks and do no harm".

do me however you want Burk...just do me{lol}!!!wooohoooooooo!!!

Oh, Burkalini, you already know how I like it , and I've stated it elsewhere. But, for the record, I like it hard and fast and the man to be a bit dominant.
Altho... "someone" (*ahem*) recently showed me that I could orgasm when it was super slow and smooth. Yet, then again, he was still dominating me. He was in charge and instructing me, so it was hot.

When in doubt I like to mix it up during the session, somethin for everyone

i always like a little bit of both and i think most women do as well.

either start softly and explore her body slowly....and eventualy get more forceful with a hand on her throat and some hair pulling.
or start our a lil more rough...in control, telling her what to do. then, after she does what she is told and a sweat is worked up...slow things down a bit for some deep, face to face slow fucking.