When a woman cums??

Women cum???? Originally Posted by Who's Your Daddy

Id also like to get an answer on this...?

I have had two session where the lady came so many times (oh how wonderful it is to help a woman cum over and over again!) that I had not cum yet, and did not because my scheduled time was over and the lady was tapped out and exhausted. It left me satisfied and frustrated at the same time, but wanting more of the lady. I think that we men not only should be wanting our needs met but meet the needs of the lady we're with. That provides for better chemistry and better orgasms ... for both!

I have had two session where the lady came so many times (oh how wonderful it is to help a woman cum over and over again!) that I had not cum yet, and did not because my scheduled time was over and the lady was tapped out and exhausted. It left me satisfied and frustrated at the same time, but wanting more of the lady. I think that we men not only should be wanting our needs met but meet the needs of the lady we're with. That provides for better chemistry and better orgasms ... for both! Originally Posted by andersontroy24

I agree that it does make better chemistry if we are both out to satisfy the other person. I don't mind BnGs, where my goal is to cum and do enjoy them, but I do tend to prefer when it's mutual.

I agree that it does make better chemistry if we are both out to satisfy the other person. I don't mind BnGs, where my goal is to cum and do enjoy them, but I do tend to prefer when it's mutual. Originally Posted by TemptationTammie

So on some level you think men should pay you to make you come?

So on some level you think men should pay you to make you come? Originally Posted by Jaxhardcore

I say yes... If you are looking to connect with the other person and have an experience.

No... If you are looking for friction until you orgasm.

I say yes... If you are looking to connect with the other person and have an experience.

No... If you are looking for friction until you orgasm. Originally Posted by Bob McV

Well said.

I guess I never considered some guys pay for a "connection".

To me it seems kind of like paying to cook your own food...

To be clear I use the term connection to mean acknowledging and exploring the give and take of sex.

Not to say looking for a loving and committed relationship.

On the flip side I wonder why guy don't seek out if not insist on a mutuality orgasmic experience.

Not to seems like paying to have someone make the same dinner with your food you were going to have anyway.

Personally I pay to have a dining experience that is new and unique even if the ingredients are known (and well used)

The woman's orgasm is the pinnacle of any session for some men. And it is definitely very important to a plethora of others.

No it's not necessary that I have an orgasm during a session, if I'm doing femdom, I really don't even have the desire. But if me having one makes my partner feel happy and fulfilled, then why shouldn't I enjoy it?

To address the original topic, I can only speak for myself. The most important thing to remember about a woman's bit are that we are all different. If you want to know how to make us cum, ask us. If we're making positive sounds, keep doing what you're doing. If you feel her body tense up, don't even think about stopping.

As far as multiples, it depends on the woman, it depends on the type of stimulation. I can have 10 consecutive gspot orgasms, but one clitoral orgasm is analogous to a male orgasm. I'm too sensitive to be touched, I don't want to think, I just want to lie there and bask for a minute or two.

Don't assume you know everything about women, because no two crotches are identical. Providers do the same thing, we know this isn't a "one size fits all" game.

Don't assume you know everything about women, because no two crotches are identical. Originally Posted by Miss Scarlet

Preach on, sister!

I don't want to think, I just want to lie there and bask for a minute or two. Originally Posted by Miss Scarlet

Well put. Sounds like me after our session last week!

Well put. Sounds like me after our session last week!

If by lie and bask, you mean daze off into space and drool a little in a short term, post release vegetative state, then yes. :-)