Gifts to providers

For a 2015 Camaro with the V8, I'll be a better bitch than she ever can sweetie! Muahhhh

Oh I like the metal flake lime green w/black stripes.

JK........... I think

If she's traveling 300 miles to visit family, then they must know her line of work, or think she's hit the lotto. Also, if it's in your name, they can take the license plate and trace it back to you and then you may be getting more family visits.

But if you do decide, then pick a nice fuel efficient Honda, Hyundai, Mazda, Toyota or Volkswagen which would tell everyone she's thrifty, cares about the environment, lives within her means and you are generous but not crazy.

If you buy her a Camaro, or any car for that matter, you might as well get it in RED so the cops will keep an eye on her more closely. They will also be calling on you in case she's towed... or worse.
It will also go with all the RED flags that will be popping up.

Unfortunately, sugar babies, like children, do not come with instructions.

You have had your share of sugar babies huh? Originally Posted by SAangel27

Some of us give from our hearts.

Thanks for your sincere opinion. Well, she really didn't ask for one but i know she wants one. Main reason i wanna get it for her is cuss she visits her family every weekend, its like 300 miles away and she drives around in this old clunker. Ive already helped her with the transmission. So i'm thinking heck why not.



Whats wrong with that ? Originally Posted by Puma1979

Nothing is wrong. In fact if you are helping her that is a noble gesture on your part. Like some of the other ladies have said, get her something practical and doesn't scream sugar baby. She may have lots of S'plaining too do if she rolls up in that out of the blue.

Haha...one time at the Mercedes dealership I saw this 60+ year old guy buying a new Mercedes for a girl, (clearly not a daughter or grandaughter by their body language)...she looked about 20+, dressed to kill, and had a gleam in her eyes.

The only gift you should be leaving behind is the fee. Or in my case I also leave behind shame, disappointment, and depression.

The only gift you should be leaving behind is the fee. Or in my case I also leave behind shame, disappointment, and depression. Originally Posted by Von Spieler

+1 on Shame, dissapointment and depression. But I leave knowing that ladies I see don't even break a sweat. Ha. I am easy like Sunday Morning.

Puma if you do nothing else read what the ladies are posting,good advise. Seems your having some trouble making up your mind, always go WITH YOUR GUT!!

You start of with a question..... so, if you have to ask makes me believe there is some concern. I also think-hope your just throwing on the table for fun, perks. My great grandmother use to say " if you cant give it away don't loan it". Everyone has some great ideas but I like Schetzguy... older used vehicle worked out in trade and a matching savings plan.

I'm restoring a 1978 Z28 Camero white w/ orange stripes down the middle and T-Tops. I've been thinking of getting a 2015 just for car shows, etc... I sure will take that deal and I will pay a provider of your choice 1-2 times a month for a year. Deal? LOL

This is almost as crazy as the monger that drove a Mercedes to an appointment to meet a provider he had never seen, with the intention of giving her the fucking car! And then got stood up! Damn, can't recall who that crazy mofo was!

Dude - when she has milked you for all you're worth she will drop you like a hot rock!

Helped a few out myself.

And was willing to do a vehicle for one. *BUT* only to help get on their feet. *AND* used.

If I was to buy one, it would be one with better reliability than the one you suggest. Along with better mileage, lower insurance rates, etc.

I like what Travelingbro says about giving/loaning. I just say if you loan it, expect it not to come back. Cuts alot of mental clutter when you have that mindset about it. But will say alot about the recipient with their actions.

Free is too damn easy to fuck up.

I have given both sons a car one time each. Those cars had very short lifespans.

They were treated (the cars) like shit because the car was free and not earned.

Free has zero value, therefore its too damn easy to walk away and get the next one.

You become another notch.

If she needs another car and you want to help (as it seems you do) let her work and save at least half of the cash value of a vehicle. Once that goal is set and established, help with tbe other half. At least at that point she has a stake in the vehicle and has shown she is mature enough to establish and attain a major goal.

Or just say 'Fuck it!' and do want you want to do which is to make a huge magnanimous gesture and tell us about, but when she does her gratuitous 'Fuck You!' keep it a secret so none of us are able to point and laugh and/or say we told you so.

Then in your own mind you are a winner.

Your call.

Another rom/com...Now where did I put the butter flavored salt?

Oh, I'm afraid it probably is. But not for the purposes of determining if the gift is appropriate...he's sending a message. Originally Posted by JustCause

I would use that hammer/nail gif If I could find it. Just Cause has the most likely answer....

Maybe the OP will fill us in on how it goes.....

For a 2015 Camaro with the V8, I'll be a better bitch than she ever can sweetie! Muahhhh

Oh I like the metal flake lime green w/black stripes.

JK........... I think Originally Posted by rockerrick

OP - Substantial support in a LTR is one thing. A $20K+ stocking stuffer is something completely different.

What is your goal and how will this get you there? No need to answer. Just think about it.