Yeah you knew that was a dude. He shouldn't give you money back. He was ready to pound your ass. You stopped him. Hell he was willing to let you pound him in the ass. Next time you go hunting mussy don't get scared to beat up that mussy.
This happened to me about 40 years ago, although I don't think the deception was deliberate. I picked up a girl in Montrose one night, we went back to her place, she was giving me a 12-speed Mixmaster of a blowjob, I put my hand down her pants and found something I wasn't expecting.
She was as shocked by my reaction as I was by her junk, and was literally afraid I was going to hurt her for a minute (gay-bashing was, unfortunately, often quite literal in those days).
She told me, "I thought you knew"! I said, no, you're really quite convincing.
This site is anonymous. Only place I can vent. I went home held my GF for a long time which is funny cause she's a huge snuggler and I hate it, so she was all about it. Took a long hot ass bath and did what I should have done at the beginning of that night
Rough days are part of the hobby Rick....you just gotta wash that shit off and keep marching forward....just drink heavily tonight and all will be well....