Dom or sub ladies and gents? what do you prefer?

Most men who are submissive in the bedroom are very powerful men in most other aspects. I find that combination irresistible. I don't mean just in BDSM. I like it that they are so powerful yet they let you lead the way. They want to relax and let you take over.

On the flip side, a naturally dominant manly man can have me acting so submissive in the bedroom that I'll be putty in his hands.

Trying to domme a dominant guy is just silly and awkward!

I'm dominant, so submissive to some degree is helpful Originally Posted by rockerrick

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Rockerrick i think it would be fun to find out what level of sub you like I love to be very energetic n put to work i dont like to just lay there lol. I want some ff action dt all that awesome stuff tell me to ride you whatever i can do to make my dom happy!!! Originally Posted by SweetLexi777

We'll have to make that happen after xmas, I'll be in touch

Mmm yay cant wait!!

very much submissive to both women and men

Sue I've seen SweetLexi777 recently and you would love this lady. I would love to see you give her a gusher.

I love a good dom. Unfortunately it seems they are hard to find. A lot of guys likr the idea but don't know how to do correctly. I hope a really good one comes my eventually.

Preface: I have no kids and was not married at the time.
I had a live-in slave/daughter for just over 1 year. She had no interest in finding a job or wanting any major responsibilities. So I had a 3 bedroom condo. She had 2 of them. 1 was a slave room and the other was her teenage room. I had the Master bedroom of course..LOL
If she was a good girl (chores, homework, etc), we would go out. Sometimes as a couple. Sometimes as a daddy/daughter. Sometimes as Prick and Bitch.
We had some beautiful girls come by from time to time.

Currently it takes awhile to get to know what exactly a gal means when I ask her what she is into. I have to giggle when she replies "Oh, everything!" Then to see her face when I say "Abduction and Rape"? That's when the "everything" gets narrowed down. Hahaha

Austin fun and fit and sweet lexi. JEEZ just the very thought of that made me choke on my iced tea! I would sooooooo love to show that sweet hottie how to gush while you watch Austinfun!!!! fucking sign me up and call me ready! I will totallllly work my schedule around this when ever y'all can play!! the very idea has me all wiggley and worked up over here. Damn way to send me out to happy hour guys..wet and horny as hell.

What he said. ^^^^^

I never really thought much about it until I met a provider who liked being a sub. I learned how to do some things I never thought I had in me. Was a very interesting and arousing time since I am usually more of a submissive BCD.

The chemistry of a dom/sub is a very fickle thing.
A Dom that is loved by one sub will be hated by another. It's not anyone's fault. Just a matter of preference and chemistry. Communication is key when going down that rabbit hole. Expectations, hopes and fears need to be shared first. Otherwise all involved will be hurt, mentally and/or physically.

Being a submissive to me will be much different than to anyone else...and visa versa.

Im not into the degrading/demeaning stuff. My level of dom is just using partner however I choose. I like to balance this with inflicting maximum pleasure on my partner. Lexi is the perfect balance point between the two.