I think the OP speaks to the frustrations many white people feel. That is people who just want to live their life and not bother anyone else. It was always going to be a matter of time before white people got sick of being treated (as a race) like colonial monsters. Black people may not like white people crossing the street the other way when they see you coming, but imagine being told your whole life that your ancestors are nothing but murderers, slave owners and land thieves.
I never understood that mentality anyway. And yet for all the Al Sharptons and Jesse Jacksons of the world constantly making it worse - blame white guilt for letting it get out of hand. And by "out of hand" I'm talking about racial quotas in colleges, diversity pressures on businesses, etc.
I believe institutional racism might've been eradicated a long time ago if the issue wasn't forced on people and made into the constant, unsolvable issue that it is. A professor once told me "discrimination is the cornerstone of freedom." It's about choice.
Originally Posted by Alastair
It's ultra naive to think institutionalized racism will go away if people just stop talking about it. The OP's logic is idiotic. He might as well start a thread talking about how Native Americans should be grateful for what's been done for them. The OP probably thinks that if rapes a woman, she should thank him for the courtesy of calling a cab afterwards.
If someone thinks you owe them an apology for something that happened centuries ago that neither one of you were involved in, they're stupid. You're also stupid letting it get to you. Never once in my life have I thought, "Man, I don't know how I can live my life with all these black people treating me like a colonial monster". I've been called names, but I've been called names by a lot of people of different backgrounds. Black or white, some people are idiots and carry around meaningless baggage.
People are individuals, not groups. It's a concept bigots worldwide have trouble grasping. Institutionalized racism/sexism/bigotry/hatred is a legitimate complaint. Some people have an irrational hate in their hearts that they fully embrace. It's cowardice that stops them from owning it publicly.