The decision to not write any reviews on ANY providers you see, does not make you any less of a hobbyist or gentleman. For your own reasons, you don't want to and that's your right! Please do not let that PM bother you hun!
I used to write reviews on aspd and after not getting credit for bcd status [it seems I didn't got enough in detail to get bcd status) I felt that I didn't want to write reviews. I feel that with each provider it is a ymmv kinda thing. Lately I was asked by a provider to write a review, I said yes at the time but got busy and didn't do it. We had a very good session I felt, we clicked and we both seemed to enjoy it. I didn't have a particular reason to not write it, just didn't partially due to my laziness, partially because I have limited time on the computer. I have a job that is away from a desk and pc so I can only write either on my phone or got to sneak around at home with the wife hovering, so my pc time is spend more reading than writing.
But I agree it sounds like this one went off the deep end with the pm.
I have to say I like using the reviews to check out a lady, but I get feel for her attitude by reading her posts here. If a lady doesn't post anything but an ad, chances are I won't see her.
I like to be mentally stimulated too not just physical attraction for me.
As of yet I do not write reviews. If someone asks who the great providers that I have seen, as usual I'll reply. Dallas, LilRed, April, LaVixian, Heidilynn, etc