speak for yourself my friend Originally Posted by flinde
as many reasons as there are stars in the sky.There have been times when I don't post an ad for a couple weeks because my regulars or family are keeping me busy. Then I post again and others that I've seen in the past text or PM me saying that they were wondering where I've been.
I love the utr ones that complain about it being slow. Toss out an ad I say I'll look desperate and I don't want to deal with the flood of PMs (Ie: the non-bcd part of the job)
On the other end, I think there are a few that advertise weekly+ because if they don't their senile regulars will assume they quit. Originally Posted by Bob McV
Whisper's categories- I'll bite. I really enjoy solitude. I am an introvert, but very expressive/outgoing one on one. I like socialization, but on my terms. The board is a good way to socialize without actually putting a lot of work into it. I'm mostly kidding but kinda not!I agree with Jane about the socialization and letting you gents see a little of our personality. I also don't take every appt that is requested.
The board can be an outlet for creativity and amusement. It also let's people get a glimpse of your personality. I like that, because I'm an elderly hooker (30 something). My brain is my best asset, so I try to use it here.
I want guys to like me for my brains....not just my titts and ass. I find I connect more with men who like intelligent goofy women.
As far as ads- I'll be honest. I turn down way more than I take. I like to cherry pick. Also, I always think if I don't post an ad they might not know I'm available. For me, it's better to remove that doubt or else I might worry about money. I dislike that.
Another thing is I have acquired a certain standard of living and a big overhead which I am working on getting rid of. I don't need fancy shit to make me happy. As I get older, I'm trying to live a more simple life, but until that goal is met, I must make quite a bit of money to sustain my overhead.
Plus it's kinda fun coming up with fucktardish things to write every week, so I can amuse myself and hopefully other people too. I look at it like my weekly column entry. Originally Posted by Jane Doe
Here is how a hobbyist thinks about affordability:
"If I bring lunch to work, instead of eating out at restaurant, for a WHOLE month, then I can afford licking Clare's pussy for 20 minutes" Originally Posted by nothingtolose
Unless you are married in which case the wife thinks.... wow.... WE saved $300 this month in the budget.... I'm getting a new purse.... I might have to blow him but... hec...it's only 15 minutes..... Originally Posted by WhispersWhen I was married, she never thought the "I might have to blow him" part. That might be why I started hobbying and why I am not married anymore?