Amen, brother, you and me both. I know we all have our little idiosyncrasies and tastes, but I just don't get why a guy would pay for that from any woman, no matter how hot she is or how well she sucked it. Don't get me wrong, I think Lariyah is smokin' hot but CBJ...that just ain't right...
If I see CBJ in a review, I stop reading and look for more reviews on that girl. If I keep seeing CBJ I just won't see her.
Originally Posted by Zeeba Neighba
You are right, basically to each his own. So here are
my individual reasons and I am NOT WKing ANY of the ladies saying this. Just saying why
I want covered.
1. Because I have a young son that I take care of since my divorce. He still wants a kiss each night when he goes to bed. I give him one on the forehead. I don't think I could live with myself if I passed something to him. If there is even a .000001% chance I could from something I could have avoided by simply putting a cover on I will cover. I don't know how I would be able to live with myself. Plus I could loose custody of him. Not taking that chance.
2. Unlike some people (in general, not talking about any one person), I think the ladies are doing a job and hope they are doing it because they want too. I would not want to catch something from one and give it to another. To me, they are still Ladies and deserve to be treated like that until they decide they don't want to be treated like that. To me, they aren't just a piece of meat no matter what my finger type out in posts.
3. I guess I have a little bit of a conscience in my old age. If I passed something that is really bad from one provider to another, that could put her out of business. Before she found out, she could have infected a lot of other people.
I have never met Lariyah yet even though the couple of times I pm'd her she was very sweet. She would have been my first in the hobby if she didn't require references. Now I have one but need one more.
If and when I get to meet her I will be paying for GFE, but will let her know I want everything covered if we proceed. There is more to her GFE then unprotected anything. Yes, I would love to bed her but for me, who knows, I might just be as happy if she escorted me to a dinner. If she had a bad personality or no convo skills, then I would probably never see her again but I actually did my research and it seems it is just the opposite with her.
I have had my fun when I was young in the service but I am not dead yet. Actually I am not sure how I came out without any of the many diseases that are out there. I guess I was lucky. I admit that I am tempted to contact some of the BBBJ providers but if I do, I really hope I can keep enough blood in my brain to ask for it still covered.
Myself, I am not here to see how many I can bed, I have done more than most and could put even a few of the men on here to shame ( I know better than to say all the men on here). That's what happens when you are stationed in the orient and get to travel to all the different countries with lots of liberty time and all the girls that will do anything in the hopes that you would marry them and bring them to the states. But that was also 30 years ago. Now I would love to find a select few that I would be a regular with and hope my male urges don't get me into trouble with someone else if I can't get an appointment with one. Again, this is just me. YMMV
If I found out they were doing BBFS with all of there other customers, that is there choice and I would not hate them for it but I would not want to see them any more. I can live with them doing BBBJ's though. I know, that is strange because they can get the same D's that way too. My little mind just has a cut off point is all.
So for all of you that want BBBJ's, great. I actually would rather have them too. Just remember when you are knocking us for paying for a CBJ that there might be a good reason for it. For me, the biggest reason is my son. Plus the fact that I am tired of doing it myself.
Until they come up with a cure for every disease, or I am dead, I hope there will always be women that want protection for them and their clients.
And now you know.........The rest of the Story.