Lux, so sorry to hear that happened to you! I know how you feel, that's how Tulsa went for me last week... It sucks putting all that time, energy and money into traveling, only to have the tour actually end up COSTING you money to go on!
I decided Tulsa was my last tour, probably until next Spring, and it's kinda nice to know I can just sit back, chill, and enjoy the company of some very good friends in my home city for a while!
If you do decide to come back this way please feel free to PM me, I have lots of suggestions for you...
Take care,
Staci Stacked