Looks vs. Talent

Ya know, my whole life I've been attracted to women, but not nearly as much, as I am to men. When I was younger, it was mostly the beautiful ones with great booties that turned my head, and I didn't even realize it until I was mid-thirties and a gentleman friend pointed it out to me that I did this....it was a startling realization.

Anywho, I digress. Now, it's pretty much the ladies who have personality, confidence and exude sexuality that capture my attention. (Don't get me wrong, I definitely turn my head for great booties still...LOL.) The ladies I am referring to are not always the most "beautiful" ladies, but they sure are magnetic. I have watched, at the fictional functions, at other parties and whatnot, as the men flock to these women. So, I'd say it is actually this kind of woman that most of the gents are actually attracted to. Arm candy is great, but if a lady has no poise/confidence, can't hold a conversation, and doesn't walk into a room as if she owned the place, then she just isn't "all that".

So, I'd like to think I've grown from being superficial to being able to more so appreciate the qualities of all ladies. If ya get a combo of beauty, confidence and sexual magnetism...well hey....Jackpot, baby! LOL

Initial attraction with me is looks of course. After that it is BCD skills that bring me back.

Max, you got it right baby!

Appearances will help get you noticed. Talent keeps guys coming back for more. Get both and your in heaven!!!
I do what I have found will make me happy. I expect the ladies to do the same for themselves. XOXO Originally Posted by Bubba3452

+1

Looks are good, BCD are always fun, But the Lady's with personality, PRICELESS

So, I'd say it is actually this kind of woman that most of the gents are actually attracted to. Arm candy is great, but if a lady has no poise/confidence, can't hold a conversation, and doesn't walk into a room as if she owned the place, then she just isn't "all that".

Well spoken Max...I totally agree!
Cheers!

If her bedroom skills are mediocre at best BUT she's a knockout are you OK with that?

If shes not but she can make your toes curl up like no other would you forego the beauty? Originally Posted by txcwby6

No. And no.

Of course, I''m taking this from a girls view to a dude. Or, at least mine anyway...

I think a womans personality, attitude and charisma makes up her beauty.. Skills can be taught or learned, imo

It is always nice to be with a woman who is considered a beauty. But like they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty to me means personality, wit, fun conversationalist, overall pleasing to be with. The BCD skills can be learned or taught, but the rest can not. Max is so right.