Lesbian Providers for Men

I am bisexual. I am NOT a lesbian but because of my job I prefer to date woman in my personal life.

Great post, btw. Originally Posted by HelenaIriepalomino

I have a provider friend (and by provider friend I don't mean me lol) who is the same way....she greatly prefers to date women in her personal life. I'm bisexual as well but in my personal life my preference for women and men is pretty even (most of my more serious relationships have been with men though).

Very interesting topic, and one I never considered.

Bi, straight, or gay, good acting skills go a long way.

Bi, straight, or gay, good acting skills go a long way. Originally Posted by emptywallet

Might get scolded for posting on what might be now considered a outdated posting? We'll see. Not even going to bring out the search that led me back to this post.
I've thought it interesting the labels we put on our sexual inclinations in this area. There is straight (likes the opposite sex), gay (likes the same sex), bi (likes both sexes), and lesbian (this is for the ladies who always get their way, ladies who like ladies). However even this isn't very all encompassing. Just take a walk on the wild side (The Other Realm), and you have ass sexual, pain sexual, shit and piss sexual, and more sexual preferences that I care to know about.
As for the ladies we meet here. Do we really care? We are all just folks playing a part. As long as the ladies plays here part well, our part (having a blast), is easy to play. Now, don't most of us guys thing the ladies have been playing their part "very well"?

Well, I guess that is one way to look at the world.

But it does raise a lot of questions. If you saw a lady and she had great skill at what she did, and a month later you find out that she is a lesbian, does that retroactively change how good/bad it felt at the time?

When you go into a restaurant and order lasagna, do you care if it is cooked properly--or do you ask if the cook likes lasagna--and if they don't, you send it back no matter how good it tastes?

What difference does it possibly make whether or not she likes what she does vs she does it well? Other than stroking your ego while it happens, why do you care? If she is disinterested, bored, rushed--those I can understand. But that wasn't the argument you made.

Are you actually saying that if a lady enjoys the company of the gentleman in question then she should not charge him? That is complete BS.

As far as your sister, I think you have totally missed the point.
Originally Posted by Old-T

I thought I heard the intro to " Dueling Banjos " when he made the " sister " comment.

I can only comment on a small set of ladies, but with that qualifier, here are my experiences and guesses.

It had surprised me how many of the ladies I enjoyed being with turned out to be bi-sexual. I understand that initial claims of bi in an ad or post may be more marketing than reality, but even if I limit it to ladies I have known well enough to know with some certainty, it is a larger number that I would have first thought.

After an evening that started in a strip club (my date’s preference) with my date picking up one of the dancers to take back with us, her bi-sexuality was the conversation between the three of us at breakfast. The dancer was a lesbian who would join in a FMF trio if her girlfriend wanted to. She didn’t mind it, but was definitely more interested in the other lady.

My date said she was mostly attracted to guys, but her work as an escort broadened her sexual appetite. She said some clients would introduce her into different M-F activities she had not tried before, and she discovered she enjoyed some of them quite a lot. That made her more willing to try other new things, but she still had no interest in other women.

Then she had a regular who really wanted her to arrange a doubles session. She was scared to death about how to find a compatible other lady, and what she would “have to do”. After much worrying she decided upon another escort in her area and the two of them got a room and laid it all out with candles. Then the guy didn’t show. The second provider was apparently very attracted to my friend and convinced her they already paid for the room, so they should “practice”. My friend said she started their mutual practice thinking about it strictly as a business issue, and surprised herself by enjoying it very much and—as she put it—“ I learning a lot more about myself and why guys like DATY”. She says that while she has no romantic feelings towards other women, she will now occasionally seek out another woman for a purely sexual evening. To her way of seeing it is no different than when a guy introduces her to enjoyable sexual practices.

I get a very different picture from the straight homosexual ladies (that sounds odd, but you know what I mean). When the topic has come up over a cup of coffee the answer is typically the same: they enjoy the company of many of their clients, they like spending time with them, but it is definitely work time with a client they like, not an erotic escapade for them. They focus on being very professional, very attentive, and they believe that because they feel little or no sexual arousal it allows them to actually stay more focused on the man’s pleasure. One told me that it allows her to do almost anything the guy might want because to her there is no emotional attachment to one act over another. She sees herself as an actress, and whether the role that night calls for oral, vaginal, or anal, or some fetish it is all a physical activity only and she can do one as easily as the other. She can let a man do some things that she would not let most women do to her, because there is no erotic sensation with a man, even with those she likes as a regular client and a friend. But if a woman other that her SO would do the same things, she would see it in a very different light. I understand what she says, but I don’t know that I really understand it. She is a very well known lady in her area, and it is pretty well known that she is a lesbian, not bi-sexual. But it does not seem to hamper her business, and her reviews say her clients keep returning for more.

Again, I make no assumption that this is a representative sample. Human feelings are exceedingly diverse. I hope some ladies in each category reply, though I understand that some may well not because it would be bad for business.

Thank you for posing the question. Originally Posted by Old-T

Great post. Although I never thought about it, women have to act like they enjoy the sex in many a hetero relationship, so if they are lesbian this should not be such a stretch for them.

I think I am too addicted to dicks to ever be a lesbian. I had sex with a lesbian before though. Good times.

You should pay me because I'm a great conversationalist, I venture to say one of the very best you'll ever have,
And, if you think most women are in this for the sex and not the money, in that order, you are seriously mistaken, my friend. I'm just honest about it.
Now, be a good boy and let me blow your mind and we'll both go home happy, to our wives, roflmao.
Kat