Off the CLock Interactions between Clients and Providers.

So, she doesnt owe you ? I thought that was the real question on the the table...

HB

As it relates to the laid forth scenario (no pun intended), if I have an acquaint who is a tax attorney, and at a dinner he/she gives me a fair amount of advise... I paid for dinner, do I owe them a fee for the advise? Especially if it turns out to be very useful information... Or do I now establish a professional relationship with them for future business, therefor providing additional income for them? Just a couple of thoughts..

HB

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A whore has a bad day in the office..... is tired and hungry and could use a drink and someone to talk to.... about her bad day...... Who the fuck do you think they CAN talk to?..... Ya think they can call up their class mate from school or the guy from the day job and tell them how hard it is sucking dick all day?..... Now MY use of the word whore is rather crude to someone but exactly how would that classmate or guy from the office look at them the moment she shared her day?

The nature of this business throws people together for personal time all the damn time because really... they have no one else they can share with.....[/QUOTE]

I think this is a major reason. And it works BOTH ways. I can talk about this silly hobby and all that goes on with someone who gets it. We can laugh and joke about it and I'm not typing on a keyboard.

But otherwise...Hoogars are just women. I've met several who are interesting, smart, funny in their own regards. They clean up pretty nice for a night out or dress down pretty comfortable to hang out.

Being a serial dater in the RW, I don't find much difference between a Hoogar and a Vanilla Girl in most social situations. She might grab your dick more often under the table, but I ask in all sincerity...IS THAT A BAD THING???

If you met her previously for a session then that sets the standard of your relationship with her. Unless you talked it through beforehand. Communication is key and applies to both parties. The standard can always change but both parties must agree. Making assumptions can and will deteriorate any kind of relationship.

As some have already stated, communication is key.
If you did not state that you wanted her to go with you OTC, yet you PMed her, I'm sure that she is expecting to be paid for that 'date', especially if she has dinner & overnight rates in her profile.

"Off the clock" should never be assumed. Always clarify beforehand.

As for me, I don't ever remember an off the clock session. If given a choice I prefer paying just to satisfy my minor fetish of "ownership" for the specified time period.

Making assumptions can and will deteriorate any kind of relationship. Originally Posted by marathon2010

I cannot +1 this enough. So fucking true.

"Off the clock" should never be assumed. Always clarify beforehand.

As for me, I don't ever remember an off the clock session. If given a choice I prefer paying just to satisfy my minor fetish of "ownership" for the specified time period. Originally Posted by Zhivago52

I like the way you think!

What Zhivago said also.

And what others said: Communication.

You gave us the scenario. Probable key point you left out involves communication.

Was the PM via her business contact? If so, ka-ching is to be expected.

I like the way you think! Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

You like the way anyone thinks if it makes you money.

I like the way you think! Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Double post because...well fuck I don't know why but I did.

You like the way anyone thinks if it makes you money. Originally Posted by Toyz

I've never seen Zhivago BCD, so guess again.

You like the way anyone thinks if it makes you money. Originally Posted by Toyz

It's that time of the month and she has to get noticed to have a shot at making the numbers....

Oh no, someone is saying something bad about me AGAIN - whatever will I do?!?!

Whispers why are you such a ass-wipe to Clair all the time? She never says anything directed at you. Are you Just a bully hiding behind a computer in your mom's basement? Or upset that she won't see you or something? Seriously, almost every time she post, you make some sort of bully type comment directed at her. She has class and ignores your remarks, but I just hate cowardly little bullies who pick on girls. A real man would not be like that. Stop the hate. If you can't say anything nice about her, don't say anything at all.