When a client falls in love with a provider

And I'll bet that list grows shorter and shorter with every post you make. Originally Posted by jayhawkrobbie

Right

I got into the hobby in the early 70's when my wife died of breast cancer and left me with the children. At that point of life with grief, and still being a guy with guy needs; I found the hobby. My mom and mother-in-law helped, beyond belief, care for the kids while I hit to road to make as much money as possible. The following I found to be things to think about:

1. The hobby is not a relationship.
2. Don't try to find a new love in the hobby - it can't happen.
3. The hobby is to help you keep your head on straight
4. The hobby is cheaper than seeing a mental health worker
5. The hobby is to get your rocks off - so a guy can think straight
6. Don't confuse the hobby with dating.
7. When you look for a new lady, don't expect sex right off: you are looking for a new partner. so learn to control the sexual situation both for her and you. Make her ask you for it. Thus, you will have an advantage.
8. If you married because of sex, look further next time.

Got the idea.

Anyway, I have been married three times and two wives died. So I don't know about divorce. I have seen several girls in the hobby who try to run a guy down. Just walk away.

This is about what you need in life. Separate your physical needs from your mental needs, and learn to understand the difference.

Good luck.

JR Originally Posted by JRLawrence

quoted for truth

the brain doesnt mature until ~25yo
shes hot and has her life ahead of her, he's old and is old
nuff said

Forget it

Women are beautiful, wonderful, and mysterious creatures. Originally Posted by nineninanine

Oh yes

What does Tica and DR stand fot? Originally Posted by JJ Fun Guy

DR is Dominican Republic
CR is Costa Rica
People in Costa Rica call themselves "ticos" and "ticas", kind of like how we call ourselves "Americans"

I know of about 20 guys who met girls at all-inclusive resorts in Venezuela, Dominican Republic, and Colombia and who married them. Most of them did not last 5 years, but at the time they were crazy in love. It is really hard to make these things work.

I also know of MANY girls who string guys along and let them think they are soul-mates... as long as the money keeps coming in.

This is Joanna. Joanna lives in Medellin, Colombia. She works in a bank. She has an American boyfriend who pays for her apartment and her car. She also is available for dates of an hour, or overnight... unless he is visiting Colombia. I know of a bunch of guys who pay attention to this sucker's travel schedule the same way that other guys pay attention to ladies' monthly cycles.

Nice, smart guys.

I also know of MANY girls who string guys along and let them think they are soul-mates... as long as the money keeps coming in. Originally Posted by KCQuestor

or for a Green Card

It's not just some of the clients who are f'd in the head, some of the providers are as well. I had one actually get pissed off at me because I wanted to see another provider. HUH?? She said, "I'm used to my clients all fighting over my time and yet you wanted to see someone else?" She sent me a moody text after she did a reference for me.

I would think that when you hand over cash for sex it's with the understanding that there is to be NO bs involved. I mean, isn't that the reason why most men do this?? NSA sex? Keep love/feelings/emotions out of it FFS.

Just talked with my friend for an hour or so. I don't think he will pull his head out of his ass until his bank account is about 50K lighter. Some guys learn the hard way....

Being on the provider end, we are only doing our job,... Some of us maybe a little too good.

I would think that when you hand over cash for sex it's with the understanding that there is to be NO bs involved. I mean, isn't that the reason why most men do this?? NSA sex? Keep love/feelings/emotions out of it FFS. Originally Posted by kc810m

In a perfect world, maybe, but not necessarily in this endeavor. We've all seen or heard of it time and time again.

How did that TV show intro go, "There are 7 million stories in the naked city and this is but one of them."

Being on the provider end, we are only doing our job,... Some of us maybe a little too good. Originally Posted by Gemma34

Some guys do like very good.

The word of the moment is perspective.

Being on the provider end, we are only doing our job,... Some of us maybe a little too good. Originally Posted by Gemma34

And rumor has it Gemma that your are good